Treason: why do you need it?

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

The reasons why women cheat on their husbands are probably the same as the women themselves. And nevertheless, there are some quite definite similarities between them …

Newness According to psychologists, this is the most common reason for leaving. True, some only want"

Those who seek novelty in infidelity easily get it. But the problem is that everything new after a while becomes "old", addiction sets in (from which they seem to have tried to escape), and the "cheater" can either go in search of new sensations (also not endless), or slow down and restore, before it is too late, that which is really valuable and not transitory.

Self-affirmation In any union, there may come a moment when the opinion of the other half about you becomes something familiar, ceases to raise you in their own eyes. When you start to think that any compliment is just a habitual automatism, so as not to offend, to do it nicely, or just "to get loose." In such a situation, it may be tempting to test your charm and the power of your own charm on an "independent expert". Read an example of treason on this basis here …

Cheating is often perceived as a way to find out what you really are: the more victories, the higher your "price". But there is a line beyond which the "price" can accidentally turn into "market value". What if you try to do the most difficult thing: seduce your own husband, with whom you have lived for several years? Do you remember how the heroine of the famous operetta "The Bat" did it. Just let your beloved try to say that "a wife is a read book", Sex This is done by those who do not have a good sex life with a regular partner. There can be many reasons: your other half works too much, and there is simply no time left for sex; he is far from you for a long time; he is too conservative (3 minutes at night, in the dark, on the matrimonial bed, under the covers, so that no one can hear); he is sick and now (or at all) "cannot", and one-sided sex, when only one gets pleasure, is unacceptable for some of you. Read an example here … By the way, there are cases when the husbands themselves provoke to find a sexual partner on the side. About this - in an interview with Katerina.

Revenge This reason for treason is less common than the three above. Still, most of us respect ourselves enough not to be humiliated by revenge. But there is also a hole in the old woman. Why "avenge" treason? For his betrayal, of course. Alternatively, for his indifference or tyranny. Is it worth the candle? Isn't it easier to sing "Arivederche" in the spirit of Zemfira, and, having packed your suitcases, drive off for a while to your mother or friend? And start your personal life over again? But no, there are some masochists among us who want revenge. Moreover, paradoxically, as soon as the act of revenge becomes known to the spouse, the roles change instantly: from the accused he turns into the accused, and your timid "you first started" will sound very unconvincing childish babble. And then you still have to go to my mother … You don't have to go far for examples …

Support The most naive reason for treason. Looking for support in love on the side is like expecting ripe apples from a newly planted tree. Support, understanding, caring are attributes of a serious, long-term relationship. As a rule, a man who goes on a secret relationship with a woman is looking for adventure, thrill, novelty and the absence of any kind of commitment and responsibility. So, with very few exceptions, true emotional intimacy is unlikely between two secret lovers. Here, for example, is the story of Masha …

Of course, it is impossible to say unequivocally that betrayal always turns out to be disappointment and disappointed hopes for a woman. But the likelihood of encountering them is very high. Therefore, before rushing headlong into the pool called "treason", ask yourself, why am I doing this, in fact? Are there no other, simpler and more effective ways to shake up your family life, to make it more diverse and attractive for him and for you?

Alena METELKINA