Modern ways to meet

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Previously, girls met their beautiful princes on the street, introduced friends and acquaintances. And where to meet in the 21st century?

Fellow travelers

Do you know the names of your neighbors? Many today do not know who lives next door on the staircase. But you can (and should!) Get acquainted with them. How? You don't have to go to a nice, lonely neighbor for salt. You can go to the site of one social network, where the emphasis is on finding not classmates, but precisely those who live nearby.

If you travel often, you can get to know your neighbor, with whom you will be on the same flight. Planely.com offers to register on the website, indicate the flight number and find out who will fly with you. Or even who will sit next to you. You can agree in advance with a potential neighbor who will sit by the window and who will be in the aisle. The site provides a convenient chat. Choose who you like, chat with him and sit next to him during the flight!

Anna, 28 years old: “I very often fly on business trips. It even happens that several times a week. With such work, of course, there is no personal life. Therefore, I appreciate the dating service on flights. Before each flight, I check if there is anyone with whom we have the same flight. It happens that there is no one. The service is only gaining momentum, and every day there are more and more potential male neighbors. I am still alone, but the question of who to go on a date with is no longer worth it."

Car sticker

If you have a car, be sure to use this method. It has become widespread in Europe and is about to reach us. It is enough to post a notice on the rear window of a car, and hundreds of men a day will pay attention to it. Noting to herself that its owner has a good sense of humor. The ad text can range from "Looking for a husband" to "Looking for a man from … to …"

Think about what you would like to get in the end, and start drawing up a flyer. It makes sense to purchase a special number for this purpose. There will be a lot of calls.

Zoya, 24: “Once we had an argument with my friends who would go on dates most often in a month. There were no ideas, but I really wanted to win in this comic dispute. I made a simple announcement - name, phone number, “I want to meet”. Only on the first day 69 (!) People called me, and this despite the fact that I only drove to the institute and back. In the following days, the phone did not fall silent for a minute. I went on dates every day, sometimes even several times. Naturally, I won the argument. By the way, now I'm married. And my husband and I met thanks to this announcement."

Social network for colleagues

You always have common themes and interests with your colleagues. But dating (and subsequent sex) within your company can damage your reputation in the office. Social networks have long become an analogue of dating sites. This is not surprising. You can see, in addition to photographs of a person, where he studied, with whom he is friends, where he works, what statuses he writes. That is, we learn more information from the page than from the account on the dating site. On Linkedin.com you can make a lot of useful contacts both for work and … for your personal life. You can immediately find out a person's education, his social circle, place of work. It is customary abroad after an interview (even if the employer refuses) to “make friends” on this site. Who knows how the relationship will develop further.

Ksenia, 27 years old: “I am an introverted person, it is difficult for me to get acquainted, especially with a man. At work, I often need to go to conferences - it seemed like live and be happy. There are always a lot of men at such events, and some of them - all in suits, respectable, polite. But … it didn't work. Someone advised to register on a similar resource. I refused for a long time, when I nevertheless registered, I looked closely for a long time. A few months later, men began to knock on me, with whom we have similar professional interests.

After talking on the site, it was already easier to approach them at conferences. After all, these are already familiar people, almost relatives! And after conferences, I often began to leave for the company of another handsome top manager. For a business lunch."

Ten dates in one evening

It's quite possible to meet at least ten men in one evening! We come to our rescue with "quick dating" parties. For a small amount, you are invited to meet 10-15 men. You will talk to everyone for a few minutes, at the end of the party you need to fill out a questionnaire. If your sympathies and any man coincide, you will be provided with contacts of each other. By the way, with mutual sympathy, you yourself can exchange contacts.

Such parties save time, allow you to chat with different people and immediately understand if there is love chemistry between you. It's nice that you yourself decide whether to be something more.

Such parties take into account the age of the candidates, so there is an even greater chance of meeting one. To find an organizer, search for "quick dating parties".

Natalya, 25: “I read about such a dating scheme in foreign magazines. It seemed very exciting! Still would! In an hour, you can meet a dozen men. Yes, I have not met so many in a year. The atmosphere at the party really encourages communication. All the girls sit in the same room, and men come in at a certain time. Exactly four minutes are given for communication, then the man gets up and goes to another lady, and the next one comes in his place. That would be so in life! To be honest, four minutes is very little. But it's enough to understand whether you like a man. Of the 12 men who were that day, I liked only three, I liked five. As a result, I went on dates with the men I liked. So far, the matter has not progressed further, but I will definitely repeat this experience!"