A dizzying affair with her husband

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

The bright, incomparable feelings that we experience while falling in love, alas, are not eternal. Any relationship sooner or later becomes calmer, measured and - alas! - boring. It would seem that this is a natural and irreversible process, and if it is possible to somehow relive a storm of passions, it is only “on the side”. This is not true, because it takes very little effort to make sure that the love of falling in love is not a hindrance.

"Spring doping": instructions for use

Neither age, nor a decent experience of living together are not contraindications to passionate and stormy love. After all, falling in love is, first of all, a joint action of hormones and pheromones, and you can survive it at any age. Professor of anthropology from the American University of Rutgers Helen Fisher, who has studied the phenomenon of falling in love for a long time, has proved that the process of falling in love can begin at any moment in life. This is confirmed by the results of studies in which 255 volunteers 16-60 years old took part. It turned out that the brightness and depth of feelings during falling in love do not depend on age.

Therefore, the first tip: often go out for a walk in the fresh spring air, under the bright spring sun. Your body will feel the awakening of nature and will surely "wake up" itself. After all, we are programmed to fall in love in the spring, and a small push is enough for your tender feelings and emotions for your dear person to develop into a real love euphoria! So if you and your husband are ready this spring for crazy romantic acts, for example, to break off for a weekend in Paris, then there is a considerable chance of experiencing the same vivid and magical feelings as at the dawn of a relationship.

In addition, the state of falling in love itself can bring many benefits, starting with good health (during falling in love, thanks to the intensely produced hormones endorphins, immunity increases) and ending with fantastic sex, which cannot be compared with the usual bed "routine". It doesn't matter what your temperament is: in bed with the person you are in love with, you become truly insatiable! What's more, the hormones adrenaline and endorphins, which are intensely produced during falling in love, have an interesting side effect: they suppress appetite. So, along with a great mood, you can provide yourself with a slender, toned body by summer!

The cumulative effect of hormones during falling in love gives a very clear "clinical picture". It is useful to know it in order to distinguish true love from, say, a good mood:

1. At the sight of an object of love, the heart begins to beat faster, and goose bumps run through the body.

2. You feel hot and cold, palms start to sweat.

3. There is an incomparable feeling of "butterflies in the stomach".

4. · Pupils dilate involuntarily.

5. You will not leave the feeling of lightness, flight.

6. · All senses are sharpened.

7. You can sleep only a few hours a day and still not feel tired.

Children and personal life are compatible things

Children are happiness. However, the thought of where to put this happiness for at least five minutes, probably visited every mother. And indeed: while the children are small and still do not go to kindergarten or school, they take almost all your attention and energy, so much so that there is no time left not only for renewal of relations, but simply “to relax”. Often the border between the "candy-bouquet" period and the routine family life is precisely the birth of a child.

There is only one conclusion: if you want a vivid relationship with your loved one, then you need moments when the children will not be around. You can sometimes give them to your grandmother or other relatives, but not every grandmother will be ready to accept grandchildren when you need it. The simplest and most effective solution is to find a nanny with an hourly fee, since the market for such services is only growing. If your baby is already old enough to walk in a stroller or with a nanny, then two hours (or even more in good weather) free time for you and your husband will be provided!

What can be done in the allotted two or three hours? There are a lot of options: go to a restaurant together, watch a movie, listen to your favorite music and, finally, calmly have sex, not listening every minute if the child has woken up. By the way, about sex.

There is never a lot of sex

You can be a strong and loving married couple and at the same time rarely have sex, without changing your posture for years. But this option is extremely unlikely. After all, irregular and non-diverse sexual relations usually indicate that the union has already cracked somewhere. In addition, sexual dissatisfaction with one of the partners is a direct path to the fact that he will look for missing sensations on the side.

Consider how you can diversify your sex life in marriage. The most effective means are the simplest: these are erotic lingerie, and sexual "surprises" like sex in the parking lot, and daring role-playing games. It all makes sense to try. However, it is much more important to return those strong and magical feelings that attracted you and your husband to each other at the very dawn of your relationship. Therefore, along with other means, you can advise together to remember how and where your “first time” was, what feelings you then experienced for each other. If you succeed, then your husband will become your lover again, your sex will be as bright as before, and your relationship will be stronger than ever.

By the way, sex can bring a lot of benefits from a purely medical point of view.