As the first violin

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

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Although, perhaps, we do not do this in vain. Here look. Every girl dreams of someone tall and piercing to take her hand and say: "Seeing you, I immediately realized that I had found the girl of my dreams." But what would a woman say to a man? God forbid! But my friend, a very loving young man, claims that a girl who utters such words will go down in history. And it certainly will not leave the object indifferent. So where did we get the idea that we shouldn't be disarmingly sincere with men?

After all, until now, men are the first to be the first to be recognized in love. And only women's glossy magazines urge us: "Let's seize the initiative!" Like, will we wait? But these same magazines, on the other hand, are driving into our susceptible heads that a man needs a riddle, and he will immediately leave a woman in love with him, I quote: "To conquer new fortresses, because in the old one he is no longer interested - he is already belongs".

Let's try to change roles - from female to male. We will not scrape our delicate cheeks with a razor, and bang the roach on the table shouting: "Bartender, more beer!" We will try to take a masculine position in love. It would seem, what is simpler:

1. Choose a nice guy on the street and approach him with the classic "male" question: "Can I meet you?"

2. Ask for his phone, not give yours and call when you want to talk: you can the next day, you can in two weeks.

3. Set a meeting place yourself and in the future easily initiate proposals for leisure activities.

4. Kiss him first.

5. Do not hide his jealousy when he flirts with another girl, at the disco with a firm hand to take him away from the presumptuous person in a mini-skirt, to make him understand unequivocally that you do not recognize "free love".

6. Lost for a week, and then briefly explain that "there was a lot of work."

7. The first to say that you love him.

8. In the evening, calmly announce that there is no dinner, because I did not want to cook, and your favorite movie was shown on TV.

9. Call him at twelve and tell him that a friend is having a party, you stay with her for the night and ask you to understand.

10. Give him an idea: "Don't you think we should get married?"

In fact, doing this in practice is not much more difficult than reading about it. Many of my determined girlfriends have already tried it. For example, twenty-year-old Irina, putting her eyes on the teacher and figuring that after the exam she would never see him again, she herself left him her business card. And when he called, she admitted that she would like to meet him for a cup of coffee. They are together now. And Sveta, she is 23 years old, has never cooked at all in their shared apartment with Ivan - she does not like it. And Vanya, tired of street hamburgers and homemade sausage sandwiches, had to get some kind of super microwave, in which, as in an advertisement, you put raw chicken, and take out a ruddy roast with green peas and lettuce leaves.

But, in spite of everything, there are things that always and under any circumstances are performed only by a man:

1. Move the cabinet.

2. To carry twenty kilograms of potatoes in a bag.

3. Catching a taxi at night.

4. Giving flowers to a woman, opening a door for her and serving a coat.

5. Fight hooligans and other troublemakers.

6. Lead in the dance.

7. Kneel down and give a ring, making a marriage proposal.