10 SMS that cannot be sent to an ex

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

So, you're on the lookout again. But I haven't completely forgotten my ex. And the feelings of your "ex" towards you, too, have not yet completely died out. In order not to complicate life for yourself and him, refrain from writing SMS, the texts of which are given below.

1. SMS about your suffering:

« I still love you,”or“I can't forget you,”or“I still miss you.”

For reconciliation after a small quarrel, such texts would be quite acceptable, but since you are in the process of parting and your mind tells you that there is no chance of a happy reunion, such text messages in the worst case will upset your ex, most likely - they will leave you indifferent, but certainly not will return it.

2. Nostalgic message:

Nobody compares to you

Oh, is it ?! Truth? And why, one wonders, until recently you so quickly and without looking back scattered in different directions? Stop blowing romantic rainbow bubbles, come to your senses: in this "borderline" period of parting, when mental wounds have not yet healed, it is common to idealize the past. And forget the negative, which, perhaps, was much greater. Come back to reality, this obsession will soon pass.

3. Penitential and conciliatory SMS:

“I’m very, very sorry!”, “I am the only one to blame for everything,” “Come back, please! Please !!! "," Let's start all over again."

And what nonsense does not come to mind during this dangerous period! Is one to blame? If this is true, then it is probably too late to repent. And if these are the next manifestations of the “breakup syndrome”, then remember that in fact both are usually to blame. There is no point in being humiliated. And even more so to place the burden of guilt on your fragile, beautiful shoulders.

4. SMS "flirting with alcohol":

"Would you like a drink?", "How about a little one?"

And what do you expect from such a meeting? Do you think that under alcoholic vapors your charm will work on him with renewed vigor? Such text messages work one hundred percent at an early stage of the relationship, and then their effectiveness (and benefit for the relationship) tends to zero. So, if you really can't wait, it would be more correct to test their effect on your new acquaintances.

5. Lecherous provocative text:

"At your place or at my place?", "Come at night"

Even if in your relationship such directness and swiftness were in the order of things and you have not been interested in foreplay for a long time, still try to direct your sexual energy to a new goal. And, by the way, this is the best time to rethink the proverb: "An old plow is better than two new ones." But no: now the more new and different, the better - feel the advantages of freedom after a divorce!

6. SMS sent at three o'clock in the morning drunk:

"Hello, how are you?", "Are you busy now?", "Can you talk?"

There can be a million variations of such a text, the most ridiculous, the content is not important here. The pinnacle of stupidity is to send messages to your ex in the middle of the night in a drunken stupor. What's the point of this? What will you achieve? In the morning, after rereading your "pearls", you will be hysterical, burning with shame and dying of a hangover.

7. The text is about nothing:

Hey…

This ellipsis after the greeting betrays you and says a lot. About the fact that you are treating the “former” like a dog in the manger: you’re not “am” yourself, and I won’t give it to another. From this walking around the bush, the habit of “staying in touch,” even when there is absolutely nothing to discuss, you yourself suffer from your permanent innuendo. Such text messages are a manifestation of an addiction that you need to get rid of.

8. Endless stream of sms:

"Hello, how are you?", "Are you busy now?", "Do you have a meeting?", "Can you call me back?", "Why don't you call?" etc

Do you have a good reason to start an SMS hunt for him? “Bombing” him with text messages endlessly, from night to morning, is hardly acceptable, even if you parted very amicably. The only time you can choose this strategy is if your ex-boyfriend does it to you himself. Then you can strike back using his own method. But in reality, cold ignorance is much more effective. And it will not require any time, mental or financial costs.

9. Too many emoticons:

«;):-*** @)->- <3 »

Aren't you trying to quickly break the emotional bond that ties you to your ex? Then what other expressions of emotion are there in the lyrics? Write SMS exclusively on the case.

10. Friendly message:

“Let's hang out”, “Let's take a walk? Let's spend the evening as friends."

Have you ever sent a text message that made you feel ashamed later?

	Yes.
	No.

If from love to hate, as they say, is only one step, then from love to friendship is a huge distance: it is so easy, after everything that happened between you, to quickly move from the category of lovers to the category of friends - it is almost unrealistic. Do not drive yourself into a dead end situation, cool it down. Maybe in a couple of years such a party will take place, to everyone's pleasure and without heavy emotional consequences.