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Video: Angelica's new experience - a conversation with a psychologist
2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00
Dear Readers! We would like to conduct a small survey among you and find out if you have ever turned to a professional psychologist to solve any of your problems? Our editorial office is actively developing the fifth season of the "Beauty for a Million" project, and once again we learn from the participant that visiting a psychologist was a real discovery for her. Yes, this is how our perky Angelica described her communication with the psychologist Alena Pryanik. And also our heroine had a lesson with a choreographer. Angelica had a very busy day! But let her tell you everything herself.
I come back to you with my new story - how I visited a psychologist! You all know that a consultation with a psychologist is an important part of a project. In this respect, I could not avoid the "fate" of the previous participants. And I am glad of this, because I have long dreamed of visiting a specialist of this profile.
Before, I tried to solve all my problems with the help of my girlfriends. Probably like many of you. However, this gives only emotional relief, but in no way removes the "stone from the soul." Communication with Alena Pryanik (it was she who will accompany me throughout the project) was different.
After a short acquaintance, I began to tell her about my life, to remember some important moments, how I acted. At the same time, Alena constantly asked leading questions, inviting me to look at the situation through the eyes of a stranger. Yes, I tried to object and said that I also use this technique, that I read a lot of literature, but, alas, there was no result.
And then at some point after the next question "Why did you do that?" It seems to me that it dawns on me: “Indeed, why then did I act this way and not otherwise ???”. It was like a bolt from the blue! Without exaggeration! I began to chase my life and remember that other solutions were possible in difficult situations
Opening? Still would!!! Alena Gingerbread found the key to the puzzle, which I have been trying to solve all my life. And it took her about 10 minutes. Fantastic!
By the way, one of the techniques she used in her work with me is metaphorical cards. If you are interested, then google - on the Internet I found a lot of information about this method. Its essence is that you must choose certain cards that are most suitable for characterizing your future, present and past. It looks like a gypsy fortune-telling, but it takes a scientific approach:))
In general, my communication with the psychologist was intense. Now we have to analyze all this again and learn how to apply Alena's advice in everyday life.
But that's not all that happened to me on this wonderful day. Then I went to dance lessons! Yes, the project coordinators rented a whole hall especially for me! When I entered, there was no one else in the classroom except me, two operators and a teacher. This is the first time in my life - all the space was at my disposal!
More interesting photos and video materials about the participants can be seen on the project's Instagram
Remember, I told you that I really want to do choreography professionally, and even mount a ballet barre in my apartment? So, the chance to work out with a professional choreography teacher is my dream
In class, the teacher gave me a master class on stretching, and she "pulled" my muscles and ligaments so gently that no pain arose. I was also praised for excellent flexibility!
I didn't even notice how the lesson came to an end. A little shower, and you can go home - think over everything that happened to me during this wonderful day!
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psychologist's comment:Edited by Angelica is light, smiling, energetic and cheerful! She is constantly in motion, there is a feeling of seething energy … No wonder, when I asked how you rest, how do you replenish the resource, she wondered, really, how do I rest? I don't know, she said. This is an interesting topic for further research. Angelica, like many of our women, is used to coping with her problems and life's difficulties herself. One has raised two children and has been divorced for several years … She maintains a relationship with her husband, but still difficult. Despite all the difficulties, she goes to her goals, is positively disposed. Wants transformation, transformation. She still does not fully believe that she had a unique chance to participate in the project. There is, of course, some anxiety in terms of future changes … People tend to worry, expecting something new, unknown. During the consultation, Angelica and I worked with metaphorical associative cards: we chose three cards from the deck, which, in her opinion, symbolized the past, present and future. Discussed on this score. I think after that the anxiety disappeared. Angelica said that she pays a lot of attention to her health at this stage of her life, even for herself it raises questions … Why is it so important now … Somewhere in the depths of her soul it worries her. During the consultation, we reached some depths, and Angelica left me in thought … I hope the reason for the fear for her health will be found and the anxiety will go away … I have a very positive perception of the heroine in general, I am glad that she participates in the project! Alena Gingerbread |
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project coordinator's comment:We always find the best and proven partners for our members. Although sometimes we ourselves are in for a sudden disappointment. It happened with a very famous and respected dance school. We agreed for an hour lesson in choreography at the barn, since that was exactly what Angelica dreamed about. As a result, the lesson was finished in 30 minutes, and instead of the machine, an ordinary hall was allocated and stretching was carried out … It was a shame for such an attitude. But the most important thing is that even from these 30 minutes, Angelica has only positive emotions! Therefore, we will continue to delight her! Subscription to another school of choreography and homework at the barn should pay off already by the final, which will take place in just a few months! Alice Framm |
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Commentary by an expert in the "Two Opinions" section on Cleo:Well, why not? If "for free" they offer to improve the appearance, then why refuse? Moreover, if there are plans to try to "trade a face" at a professional level. At the same time, I would not recommend treating the procedures as a guaranteed pass to the “big life”. In addition to a tightened chin and smoothed wrinkles on the face, in order to get a role or start taking pictures for gloss, knowledge, specific skills, great experience and strength are required. It also takes a lot of luck to get to the right place at the right time to meet the right person. Otherwise, everything will remain in place. It is also best not to forget that besides the nose, eyes and cheeks, there are other parts of the body that indicate age. And if you set yourself the goal of looking younger than your age, then you need to deal with the whole body at once. Sports, strict diets, beautician, doctors. And all this is required to be done regularly, and the cost of many procedures will only grow every year. This I mean that you should not overestimate what is happening. Operations, of course, will bring some fresh air to the image. However, they cannot make a person 20 years younger. And no one will ever become thirty-five years old, being in reality a person "over 50". In the best case, you will get "a very good looking person after 45". Therefore, if there are hopes for a real "rejuvenation", then I advise you to part with them immediately, so that later you do not get a "kickback" in the form of some kind of depression. It is better to perceive the competition as an already accomplished gift that allows you to look good in your no longer girlish years, but nothing more. And it will turn out to somehow apply and have additional bonuses from life - as God willing. It will be good. Well, no, but I look better than all my classmates. Sergey |
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Consultant psychologist Alena Pryanik
Photos courtesy of Natalia Veselova, @veselkyna
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