Young boss: if you fall in love with him

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Feel like you are speechless at the sight of him? Do your legs give way when you run to carry out his errands? Congratulations, you have an attractive and young boss! Find out from three different stories of real girls what they did in similar situations.

Malika, 29 years old

I was getting out of a very difficult relationship at a time when I decided to change my promising career as a lawyer to work as a secretary in the capital. I did not know what awaited me, and did not guess how my fate would develop in the future, but I had a clear feeling that my soul required changes. Thus, I made the decision to move from my hometown, where I already had a knurled way of life, to the unknown of ghostly prospects in the capital. On the first day, when I came for an interview with the company, a very handsome and attractive guy was riding with me in the elevator. I immediately noticed it for myself. After a successful interview with the head of the company, I was led to introduce my supervisor. And what was my surprise when I saw the very guy with whom I was traveling in the elevator. Never in my life could I have thought that bosses could be so attractive and young.

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Unbeknownst to myself, I fell in love with him, everything froze inside me when he called my name, when he threw random glances at me or when he gave me orders. It was unbearable - for six months I silently suffered from my love for him. While I was melting from this feeling, he did not give out a hint of something more than a working relationship. At some point, it became so unbearable that I thought about quitting, but my attempts to find another job were unsuccessful. Then I decided to change my attitude to the situation.

No, I didn't want to forget him at all or somehow drown out my love - I allowed myself to love him. In the beginning, there was a huge contradiction inside me - feelings and reason did not agree with each other. I loved him, but I knew that he was my boss. And so there were a lot of doubts and fears that it seems that working and love relationships should not be interfered with. I also thought how embarrassing it would be if he denied me a reciprocal feeling. But the decision was made - I must try my luck. So, within three months from that moment, I began to actively attract his attention. I dated other guys in the office, flirted with them and looked as gorgeous as ever. What were my attempts crowned with?

It was unbearable - for six months I silently suffered from my love for him.

I began to really like one of the guys I flirted with, but my old love for my boss still remained in me. At the very moment when I already wanted to let go of this love in order to enter into a new relationship, this love answered me - my boss invited me to dinner. And that's how it all began. From that moment on, I am madly in love with my now husband.

Inna, 32 years old

When I met Sergei, I was 27 years old, and he was 25. Of course, I was terribly jarred that I was subordinate to a guy who is younger than me. Sergei gave me stupid assignments, made completely wrong decisions, and I allowed myself to tell him directly what to do and how to do it. We quarreled with him, of course, but with his only argument, Sergei shut my mouth - "I am your boss, period." I was torn with anger, my hands were shaking with rage, and my whole being was dissatisfied with my position. I decided to change jobs and at the same time take refresher courses. A year later, I returned to this company, but by an unexpected coincidence in a different capacity - I turned out to be Sergey's boss. Yes, it happens. Life is very unpredictable.

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Sergei, unlike me, never quarreled with me - he knew his current place very well. Once at the corporate party of the company, Sergei admitted to me that he understands how wrong he was, that he learns a lot from me and would like to make friends with me. I was not against friendly relations with him, contrary to the general opinion that one should not be friends with subordinates. We began to talk a lot with him heart to heart, trust appeared, and a real friendship arose between us. Six months later, Sergei left for another job, but our friendship remained.

Karina, 23 years old

I worked as a flight attendant for an airline under the guidance of a charming young man with whom I was madly in love. This handsome captain turned the heads of many women, and I was no exception. Sincerely believing in my (and most importantly, in his) light feeling, I began to meet with him. Four months of a beautiful and romantic fairy tale in various countries of our world ended when my captain suddenly began to take other flights. We stopped communicating because he could fly the Moscow-Amsterdam route for two months, while I flew Novosibirsk-Astana. Trying to somehow influence the situation, I tried to talk to him, left messages, talked with the management about the flight change. But he completely ignored me, and all my attempts to talk to him came to nothing. After some time, I was still allowed to take the same flight as his. Then we met, but he already had a girlfriend - one of the flight attendants of our company. I still tried to find out why he did this, to which he simply replied to me: "Yes, I am a bad person, go check if all the pillows are in place."

After going through the pain, I learned a lesson for myself that I would never meet my boss again.

His opinion:

Andrey, 25 years old (Head of Legal Service)

Probably, it is not worth having affairs with the management, although if I had a pretty secretary, I would not refuse easy amorous adventures with her.

Spit on all the stereotypes and public opinion! Today he is your boss, and tomorrow … Who knows?

Sergey, 33 years old (Vice President of a logistics company)

I am totally against this kind of relationship. They never lead to anything good.

Amir, 27 years old (Head of sales department)

- Anything can be. And if the girl is good, then it doesn't matter who we are in terms of social role. Love is about something else.

We absolutely agree with Amir, love is really about something else. If you find yourself in a similar situation - go for it, as the first heroine Malika did. Spit on all the stereotypes and public opinion! Any, even negative experience is an invaluable experience. Today he is your boss, and tomorrow … Who knows?