How to avoid rape?

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Nature arranged it so that in the love game preceding the appearance of offspring, the man plays the role of the "conqueror" and the woman - the "victim". And although in the 21st century women are more often busy not waiting for their husband from hunting near a burning fire, but with their career and self-expression, nature is not aware of these annoying innovations. And the "basic instinct" continues to require polygamous men to impregnate as many women as possible in order to maintain the tribe's population at the proper level.

And the same ancient instinct forces a woman to resist, since she needs time to bear the baby and have time to raise him until the moment when he can survive on his own. Very often because of these "vestiges of the past" misunderstandings are born between a man and a woman, books on the topic "Why men are different from us" and the problem of rape.

All of this could have been avoided, but how to avoid rape? It is necessary at least a little to understand the mysterious male psychology, but, unfortunately, 90% of victims of sexual violence are girls under 25 (half of them are minors). And if all rapes are conditionally divided according to the "who" principle, then the result will be something like this: 7% - a stranger, 70% - just an acquaintance, 14% - a boyfriend, 9% - a husband. The data is very approximate, because you cannot trust the statistics regarding rape, but on the whole they quite reflect a sad picture - most of the rapists are familiar with their victim, and sometimes even very close.

A maniac awaits us in the doorway

The textbook situation in the gateway actually does not happen so often - it just gets into statistics more often. How to avoid this, you are taught from a young kindergarten age: do not enter the elevator with strangers, do not talk to other people's uncles, do not walk alone at night … There is another aspect of this problem - that every woman is in the deepest depths of her ancients instincts cherish the dream of having sex with a stranger. And, perhaps, that is why she "on the subcortex" provokes the male. But in fact, such rape can turn into a big disaster: incurable diseases, unwanted pregnancy, not to mention such "trifles" as, for example, severe mental trauma. A girl after being raped for more than one year can carry a chilling fear in herself, be afraid to go out and be afraid of any rustle (and there is no need to talk about fear of men).

Girl, can I meet you?

The overwhelming majority of rapes are committed by unfamiliar people. How to avoid rape? And here a lot depends on a woman's self-esteem. There are ladies for whom sex with a man who has just met at a beach disco is just a pleasant adventure, and she will not make a tragedy out of it. If this is unacceptable for you, then you need to try not to be alone with your new acquaintance, and even more so not to let yourself be dragged to his house under any, even the most harmless, pretext.

Several years ago, the newspapers wrote about a terrible case when a young girl went home to "watch a Vidic" to an almost stranger, and he turned out to be a maniac and chained her to the bathtub, where he kept her for a long time. While this is of course an exception, it is not worth the risk. Remember that the male considers a more or less supportive female from the position of potential sex, and your innocent coquetry - as consent to this very sex.

In addition, when meeting, for example, in a bar, you can simply get drunk, so keep yourself under control and do not succumb to persuasion like "one more", especially with unfamiliar drinking companions. You can regret this momentary weakness all your life later.

Come, you won't lose anything here …

You have met several times already, walked hand in hand, even went to a restaurant, and he paid for you. Maybe you are not pinning any hopes on this acquaintance, or maybe you are already secretly making matrimonial plans. In any case, you are still not sure of anything. And your friend, meanwhile, believes that the "candy-bouquet" stage of the relationship is already over, and is going to take decisive action, inviting him under the pretext of "meeting a cat" or "a cup of coffee." For all men, this invitation and your consent are perceived unequivocally - as a traffic light shining in all shades of green. If you, too, treat "closer acquaintance" favorably - great, and perhaps we will soon witness the creation of another unit of society. But if you're not ready - then don't be naive! When you say “no” to a man already being “on his territory”, he will perceive it simply as part of an ancient love game. After all, a woman very rarely gives herself up to a man just like that, on demand. And where is the line between real unwillingness and coquetry, sometimes you yourself cannot determine. Therefore, try not to provoke a man, especially if you are alone. If you are lucky and a decent man gets caught, he will not suppress you, but simply wonder why you suddenly showed up at his house. But if he is not brought up in gentlemanly traditions and does not bow to the cult of the Beautiful Lady, then he will not stand on ceremony.

In any case, in order to avoid rape, remember - your life and health are much more important than anything else. And, in order not to be an unhappy victim, be careful and always act decisively, do not let yourself be deceived and know that you are worthy of respect.