Why and how women cheat

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Never cheated, and you wonder how it happens? Or maybe you are thinking about going left and wondering what will happen? Read the stories of the "experienced". Here is how and for what reasons female infidelity occurs.

Out of boredom - not an option

There is nothing wrong with cheating, on the contrary, everything is very pleasant, only after such a powerful emotional doping in the form of cool sex with a new man, an emotional emptiness appears. After 5 years of marriage, I was frankly bored, and at work there was a handsome, interesting colleague. After 15 years of marriage, he was also bored, he wanted flirting and relationships without obligations. In short, despite the fact that both were married, they began to meet, at first it was very interesting, adrenaline, love and passion. And then boredom again, only after an ardent lover I don't want to look at my old husband at all. He became absolutely uninteresting, and his lover's passion for me faded away. As a result, I can’t live a normal life with my husband, he annoys me, doesn’t interest me as a man, loses in comparison with a lover, and it doesn’t work with a lover either, he doesn’t need me, he has a family, a wife, his own problems, new hobbies … Now I hope that I will meet a new man and take into account my mistakes. I can say for sure that cheating due to boredom is not an option for solving family problems, it became even worse for me.

I wanted spice, extreme

There was a calm, measured life, without any special changes, stresses, outbursts of emotions, everything was boring to the point of horror and gnashing of teeth. I wanted some spice, extreme, I thought: I ought to drive a motorcycle, drive, become boring, drove 200 km per hour in a car … I did not let go, and came to treason. New emotions, people, diversity, fear of being recognized. I do not regret anything, we both rested in body and soul.

Forbidden Fruit Is Not That Tasty

I cheated on my husband, I wanted violent emotions, I am generally by nature a person who is constantly looking for adventure, I like to travel alone to exotic countries, I love extreme sports. During the trip I met a young instructor, he is caring, gentle, interesting, I did not even tell him that I was married. I just allowed myself to become another depraved and without complexes, and drinking a lot of alcoholic beverages. If in ordinary life I am an exemplary wife sitting on my husband's neck, then with the instructor I tried on a completely different role and image. And as soon as I tried it, to understand that it was not mine.

I wanted euphoria, storms of emotion, dizzying sex. But in fact, there is no euphoria, there is ordinary curiosity.

In sex, all men are the same. And cheating with a random man with whom you know for sure that there will be no common future is as if you are trying on clothes in a boutique, perfectly aware that you will not buy. After this incident, I no longer look at other men. The forbidden fruit was tasteless and not worth it. The forbidden fruit, which has become available, ceases to be sweet. And it takes a very long time to wash off all the remaining dirt.

I lost a good person

I lost my beloved man in due time and regretted it very much. And this happened not because he found out, but because when you come after bright sex with a passionate lover, your own husband seems insignificant to you, even worse than before the betrayal. And the further, the more it seems that you do not love him. In the end, she gave up herself. And I regretted it for a very long time. Since I lost such an affectionate and gentle person, who loved and respected me, and in return received an arrogant egoist, with whom I parted in a couple of months, as I recognized his real one.

I settled scores with my ex

Accidentally in the subway I met a man whom I once loved. 10 years ago, he knew about my feelings, but did not want a relationship. And in general, to be honest, he did not behave very nicely. For ten years I did not want to hear, see or know anything about him. And then they crossed, all thoughts are only about him, the brain is boiling, the nerves can not stand it.

I can't concentrate at work, I fly in the clouds at home, all the time I have some fantasies associated with it.

I am married, I have a loving husband, and I think about something else. The husband notices, asks questions. I was constantly afraid to sleep, but I still began to date that ex who suddenly fell in love with me. We met for six months, I realized that I had no feelings for him, just an old resentment, what he pushed away ten years ago, haunted me, my pride was wounded, and now he is at my feet, and he absolutely does not needed. You can say that I cheated on my husband in order to settle scores with an old lover who once ignored me.

He still won't marry

Even betrayal can occur when the relationship is hopeless. One of my friends periodically walks to the left, as she understands that her man will never marry her.

"Everything from dissatisfaction"

I just didn't have enough sex with my husband, good, emotional sex. At the age of 30, something happened to me, and sex became very important for me, and his husband “did it out of habit”. At first I tried to fix everything with my husband, talked to him on this topic. But in practice, when it comes to intimate issues, men often remain silent, move away from the problem, do not recognize it. It happens that you told him once, said two, said three - and he only gets offended. And you speak kindly, without reproaches. Then - dissatisfaction and, as a result, betrayal.

I want a fountain of emotions

Before marriage, she cheated, just over time, sex became insipid, I wanted something new, such that it would blow away. Whatever they say, I personally find it hard to believe that with a man you know up and down, it is possible to relive that fountain of emotions again, as at the beginning of a relationship, when you almost don't know the man. I don’t regret anything, it was great.

Cheating for the benefit of the family

Sometimes cheating makes it possible to understand that you do not need anyone except your husband. So it was with one of my acquaintances … They had a serious crisis in their relationship, filed for divorce, and she decided to cheat on him with one man who showed her all sorts of signs of attention. It took one night to understand how much she loves her husband, it was as if the world had turned upside down for her and she gave her one hundred percent, adjusted everything in the family. Now, for 3 years now, everything is fine with them.