Women talk too much
Women talk too much

Video: Women talk too much

Video: Women talk too much
Video: Why Do Women Talk So Much? 2024, November
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Women talking
Women talking

The guide addresses the guests: - If the ladies are silent, we will hear the noise of Niagara Falls.

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I haven't spoken to my wife since the wedding. - Quarreled? “No, I just don’t want to interrupt her.

- Something happened to our phone: I was talking with my friend, and we absolutely could not understand each other.

- Have you tried to speak in turn?

- Why did God create first a man and then a woman? - Because he did not want a woman to help with her advice during the creation of a man.

Two programmers are talking: - Yesterday my wife called me, and the modem picked up the phone … - And what? - Yes, they chatted for an hour and a half …

Three hunters argued over who will tell the most incredible story. So one says: - I once knocked down a buffalo with one blow of a knife … Two others to him: - Yes, you were sitting in a tree, and when the buffalo came up, you stabbed him in the ear and it could be … Second hunter: "And I once shot a deer with one shot and antlers and hooves "… Two others to him:" Yes, the deer scratched behind his ear … And this could be … " there is a well, and near the well there are three women … and they are silent …"

But is it true that women speak more than men? Truth. Numerous studies have shown that women have more vocabulary, higher speech activity and better speech clarity. It is believed that this is partly due to the fact that mothers speak more often to girls than to boys. But above all, the key to this lies in the psychological differences in behavior of both sexes. The female pattern of behavior is based on passivity, concentration on feelings, the manifestation of emotions and the desire to share them with others. In the male pattern of behavior, the desire is encoded to be physically and intellectually active, unemotional, not to show signs of weakness, for example, when discussing his problems with other people. And a woman, even in a stressful situation, thinks about the reasons, discusses them with all her friends. Recall the shock of all women when it came to charging telephone calls.

Men deal with stress in a completely different way. They try to isolate themselves from depressive emotions by concentrating on something else, by being physically active. Sometimes they even withdraw into themselves and become overly silent. Remember the anecdote?

"Call. There is no husband, the wife comes to the door:" Vasya, are you? "- silence. Just walked away - a long call. She came again:" You, well, you? " worth Vasya. - I asked you - you or not. - And I nodded to you!"

Oftentimes, different patterns of behavior are the cause of cracks in relationships. For example, after sexual intercourse, women usually want to talk, discuss. They are waiting for expressions of gratitude and tenderness. Smart men know about it and use it. Imagine: after intercourse, he takes her face in his palms, his eyes say "Thank you" and with infinite tenderness kisses her eyes. He runs his fingertips across her forehead, down her cheek, traces the line of her lips. And then it just cuddles and freezes. Well, how would a normal woman refuse such a man? Unfortunately, most men don't. Someone immediately turns away and falls asleep, someone reaches for the remote control and starts watching TV, someone quickly dresses and with the words "Honey, I have a lot of work" runs out of the room. Immediately I remember a joke about a guy who, after the first intimacy with a girl, lights a cigarette himself - so as not to talk, and offers the girl a cigarette - so as not to listen. True, this behavior is fraught with consequences, because everything is learned in comparison …

Alena Sozinova

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