Natalya Nesterova: what is good for an American, death for a Russian

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

- Do you know how Russian women who married Americans live?

- Any marriages, including international ones, are successful when a husband and wife do not just love each other, but try to understand what drives the chosen one in a conflict situation. If an American husband makes a remark to a Russian wife that she spends a lot of water when washing dishes or calls her mother in Russia not on a cheap phone card, this does not mean at all that he is a complete curmudgeon. It's just that he is used to counting money, unreasonable spending for an American is offensive, like bad manners.

I know a woman who married an Arab. One day he gave her … a place in the cemetery. He thought about eternity that, they say, dear, I feel so good with you that I cannot live without you, and when you die, I will bury you with honors in my country.

- For example, I would also not like it if they came to me with a similar gift - the place has already been bought for you, all that remains is to nail you …

- So she reasoned the same way! I went into hysterics. He wanted the best, but it turned out … he insulted and himself, accordingly, was offended. Then a few more such punctures, and love melted like fog, the child grows up without a father.

By the way, our men who marry foreign women do not have a sweet spot either. We spoiled them thoroughly. Because generation after generation, our men have been the main earners, and women have been natural workhorses: she will drum eight hours in the service, and the same amount in the house. American women emancipated themselves before us, so, dear hubby, wash the dishes, take the laundry to the dry cleaner, take the kids from the kindergarten, and so on. Household load is equally divided. Of course, provided that both spouses are working.

- We are now also changing the position of men and women in society. Sometimes we work harder and earn more. And in general, the need for men is gradually disappearing …

- Only in worthless men! And I propose to keep the worthy ones! We will get bored without them, we will forget how to apply makeup and follow fashion. Now there is natural selection, the strongest will survive (read - will receive female attention). Is it bad? Men just can't - take and develop. They need an incentive. A modern woman provides such an incentive - develop, stretch, try to overtake me. Men are brought up only by the perfection of women. I am deeply convinced of this and therefore I wish all women constant perfection.