Exams are a happy time

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

The main thing is calmness

It's a pity, but the current eleventh graders will have to leave their childhood. The first serious test for them will be exams: graduation, entrance. And this is not only a test of knowledge. It is also a test of the strength of the nervous system of future students and their parents.

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Cutting off the telephone wires and throwing the TV out into the street is also, perhaps, overkill. These temperamental residents of the Apennine Peninsula can afford to use household appliances so irrationally, throwing them away on New Year's Eve.

It is useful for a future student to ventilate his brains sometimes. It is better if the rise will be somewhere around 8 o'clock in the morning, then after a hearty breakfast you can safely not take your head off the textbook until 13 o'clock. Then you can relax for a while, rest, and only after 16 and until 20 you gnaw the granite of science with all your might. But it is not recommended to linger for textbooks later than midnight, anyway the brain is in a dormant state at this time, and therefore it will be difficult to memorize information.

Feeding an eleventh grader is also not recommended! Oh, you are my dear (sweet, smart), here's a pie (ice cream, a bun with jam, jam, a piece of cake). It has long been known that when a person eats, the whole body concentrates on the digestive process, and you yourself understand where they are in This moment of thought? Right, in the region of the stomach, and this, you know, is far from the brain.

If in the intervals between breakfast, lunch and dinner (and they are required) the child wants to grab something, then let it be an apple, carrot, orange. And for the body it is more useful, and for the figure (applies not only to girls). You don't have to constantly monitor what the teenager is doing. Trust, respect, understanding, calmness - what is needed most of all at this stage. Flying into a room every minute to check is not the best thing to do. Remember: you will only distract and annoy with your agitated look. By the way, it is not worthwhile to free the future student from the usual duties during the preparation for the exams. It is known that the best rest is a change of activities, so in the pauses between memorizing the Pythagorean theorem and the quadratic equation it is quite possible to vacuum an apartment or go to the store.

Understand to yourself, mom-dad, that your child is not sick (!), You do not need to rush with him like a written sack. Behave in the usual way in your family. The child has only a difficult, but completely surmountable stage of life. Your job is to help, not panic.

Try to be there when you need to and stay unnoticed when the situation calls for it. My mother turned out to be a true teacher and psychologist without special education. I entered the university, not only because of hard work, but also because of the calmness of my parent. She did not grab her head, "choosing" my fate between the unemployed and the senior assistant of the junior janitor, if suddenly I fail the exams. Mom was not at all nervous, did not escalate the situation. "If you do not enter this year, you will try next year, but you should not miss the opportunity to become a student." Probably, it was thanks to this approach that everything worked out: I wrote the dictation and did not confuse Onegin with Pechorin in the literature exam. After issuing several indications as to where the pasta is and where the canned food is, mom and dad … went to rest. My older brother stayed with me, who left in the morning and came late in the evening, so that my thought process did not interfere in any way. Parental confidence that I am an "adult, independent young lady" could not but be passed on to me and, as a result, this year I will celebrate the anniversary of my graduation from the university.

The formula of the unforgettable and my beloved Carlson, an incorrigible optimist, works flawlessly during the pre-examination period: "Calm, calm, only calm."

Break a leg! And yes, see the names of your children in the list of those accepted to the desired educational institution!