Top 5 signs he'll be a good husband

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Today in Russia is the Day of Family, Love and Fidelity. It is good if you celebrate this day with your beloved, faithful husband. If there is no "half" yet, then you still have to make the right choice. Here are 5 top tips from psychologists.

1. He likes your weirdness

Each of us has our own individual "quirks", "quirks" - in general, quirks and oddities that distinguish us from others, make us unique. On first dates, people usually hide it, we try to look as normal, polite and nice as possible. But you can't hide an sewn in a sack, and over time everything secret becomes clear, and if you like to gamble, or fancy yourself a brilliant fashion designer, or like to dance alone in the bedroom - do not hide it, on the contrary, show yourself in all your glory! If he truly loves you - then everything, and will consider your quirks and hobbies as a continuation of your merits! If so, then he is your right choice!

If he really loves you - then all, without a trace!

2. He's there no matter what

It's one thing when you meet a guy who is ready to meet you at the airport or train station, look after the cat in your absence, or fix something around the house. It's cute, you might even think of him as the perfect man, but in fact it says absolutely nothing about the essence of your relationship. A guy can behave in a completely different way if something seriously went wrong in your life: if you lost your job or - God forbid - you had a misfortune in your family. In this case, you need something more from him than a standard hug or an invitation to "sit and talk about life" over a glass of wine. In the hours of serious life trials, you may not always be able to look cheerful, carefree and sexy. If he wants to be with you in a difficult moment, when you have your eyes in a wet place every now and then, when it is hard to be with you, when you are without makeup and do not think at all about being liked by someone, then we can assume that he is the one you need. This means that he accepts you all, without a trace, for who you really are.

3. He is not afraid to show that he loves you

A real man will not be afraid to kiss you in front of friends or, taking your hand, confess that he loves you, in front of everyone. Guys who are uncomfortable when it comes to expressing their feelings in public, hiding their love under the guise of a "stern macho", most likely, will not be able to overcome this emotional obstacle. And this can become a problem in future relationships. If your boyfriend is courageous and romantic at the same time - you're in luck, hold on to him!

4. He is willing to seek compromises

If you have a mature person who can compromise, you're in luck!

A very important point! Finding a wise person who will not insist that the last word in everything and always be with him is a great success in our time. You probably already had the misfortune to meet with infantile creatures who are ready to constantly, to the point of hoarseness, argue at the level of a 5-year-old child, repeating the same primitive argument until you brush him off with your hand, they say: “do what you want ! ". Because arguing with a baby is pointless. If you have a mature person who can compromise, you're in luck! The ability to find a "middle ground" in an argument and the subsequent solution of problems proves that a man is psychologically an adult, that he is quite ripe for a normal relationship.

5. He thinks about your future together

If many of his phrases begin with the words “we should …”, such as, for example, “we should go on vacation” or “it would be nice if we went in for mountain skiing”, then this is a wonderful sign! This means that in his plans for the future you are present as a full-fledged participant, without which he can no longer imagine his life.