Let's do it quick

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

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Sex quickly simplified the science of seduction, nullifying it. A special demand for quick love has given rise to our century, furiously rushing and frenzied, when many business and busy people making a successful career simply do not have time for generally accepted rituals, for long courtship, a candy-bouquet stage, walks in the moonlight and sighs on a bench.

According to the research of American psychologists, fast sex is gaining popularity in the list of intimate preferences of sexually active men and women aged 20 to 45 years.

42% of the respondents prefer quick sex, and moreover in the daytime: in the office, in the kitchen, in the bathroom, on the balcony, in the underground garage.

37% also choose quick sex, but in the early morning hours. On weekdays, it serves as a prelude to the first cup of coffee. On weekends, almost in a dream: after a joint orgasm, sleep is even sweeter!

15% also prefer quick sex, which they practice in the evening after work. Using it as a relaxation tool after a crazy day at work.

And only 6% of the respondents admitted that the classic "long" night sex is nicer to them. However, they do not like the sexual shake-up after midnight and believe that "stormy night" is an exception to the rule, which is only suitable for people with chronic insomnia.

And the American hit parade of the best places for "quick sex" looks like this:

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Not so long ago, the sociologist James Sullivan wrote: "Any person in American society can do three things:" make money "- make money (bankers, businessmen)," make news "- make news (journalists, artists) and" make love "- to make love. Fast sex gave the first two categories a happy opportunity to take a sip of love, without moving away from the workplace and practically without interrupting the process of" making money and news."

Of course, a rare woman is able to reach orgasm in three minutes in a locked cubicle in the women's toilet. Therefore, sexologists say that if you lack even a little before the cherished peak, forget all the conventions and do what your body asks for. Zen experts offer a special breathing technique in such cases. Take a deep breath and hold your breath for about 30 seconds, trying to imagine how the air fills you all. The sexual sensations will intensify.

Orgasm can be brought closer by certain positions, for example, "man from behind." If he enters you from behind, the penetration will be deeper and his penis will be able to stimulate the sensitive front wall of your vagina. This position most of all corresponds to men's fantasies about rough sex with a stranger. In this position, nothing prevents you from fantasizing about a stranger.

Most often, fast sex has to be done while standing. In this case, a step or an inclined plane helps to equalize partners in their sexual opportunities.

By the way, "quick sex" is not only a win-win way to win a man, but also allows any woman to return the faithful's interest in the matrimonial lodge with minimal moral and material costs. "To keep the relationship" in good shape ", constant partners need variety. By the way, ladies need" sexy dessert "in the same way as gentlemen. Otherwise, exquisite" lovemaking "turns into a routine sexual intercourse. Of course, when I talk about diversity, I do not mean at all a senseless random change of sexual partners. But even the most loving spouses should sometimes abandon their usual stereotypes and try to experiment and play … Under the dining table or on the lid of a piano - anywhere. The main thing is that it should be fresh, bold and unexpected. Quick sex is pure animal passion, without restraint, without foreplay, without worrying about the partner's orgasm. The sons of Adam are extremely physiological in nature, their sexual behavior is programmed at the level of the rooster in the hen house. He swooped in, crushed, trampled … The chicken did not even stop pecking, "says sex therapist Dmitry Schwartz.

And American sexologist Barry Howll advises: "Take advantage of the joys of quick sex." What it is? Well, for example, 30-year-old Manya toils under the leisurely love caresses of her old friend Petya. He has already climbed into her panties, but he is in no hurry with the rest. "Are you ready?" the lover asks carefully once again. "Yes," - whispers in response to a friend exhausted by unfulfilled desire. "Are you sure?" - "Of course!" - "Exactly?" And now she is ready to yell: "Yes, do it, finally! Take me !!!".

And Petya is in no hurry because in the sexual imagination of every modern man there is an unshakable opinion that women turn on more slowly than men and therefore they need diligent preliminary processing. According to the existing point of view, gentle words, kissing, stroking, caressing and nibbling are as necessary as intimate hygiene. And only then you can move on to the main thing.

But! Most of the women interviewed by sexologists, as the brightest and most unforgettable sexual adventure, recall not a long marathon according to all the rules of science, but a stormy sprint that happened at the most inopportune time and in the most inconvenient place. It turns out that a long love prelude, about the meaning of which so many articles and books have been written, is just a beautiful fairy tale.

This is also evidenced by statistics: while doing self-stimulation, most men and women are able to reach orgasm in no more than 3 minutes! With a partner, the average woman achieves the same result in about 8 minutes.

Therefore, often a 25-40-year-old woman (who already knows everything and can do everything), seeing the tensed flesh of her partner, agrees to intimacy even without all the manipulations that should have preceded intercourse.

“Unfortunately,” writes Dr. Howll, “a stereotype has developed in the minds of many men, forcing them to believe that women, after quick sex, feel deceived in their expectations. the partner did not spend too much time on foreplay, many men suddenly lose their desire. Indeed, the lie that all women do not like quick sex can deprive people of many wonderful moments of intimacy. Therefore, in such a situation, a woman must take the initiative into her own hands. If you lie passively on your back, it is clear: you expect foreplay. A woman who is eager to immediately go to the home stretch must clearly state her desire to her partner.

Conclusion: the attitude to fast sex as to something low-grade comes largely from the media, which insist that prolonged, with changing positions, acrobatics, high loads, moans, screams, copulation presented in films and novels must be present in the daily bed menu. But after a hard day's work, not every man is able to withstand titanic work and the ever-growing fatigue of an endless night of love in a romantic style ?! No, whatever you say, but fast is sometimes very cool …