Only betray their own

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Somehow it happened that men for the most part live"

Naturally, first of all, you turn to the life experience of wise girlfriends, girlfriends, acquaintances. I noticed such a tendency: the older a woman is, the more loyal she is to such "little things in life." "A man can be forgiven a lot if he is a good and caring father." And this is how many of our mothers and grandmothers live. Sound familiar ?! "Children should not grow up without a father, but somehow I'll be patient." The most offensive thing is that we transfer the experience of mothers to our families, because "many have lived and live like this." Some are adopting this, and the most surprising thing is that such families allegedly survive. But such wives can be seen a mile away: an extinct look, a plump figure, shopping bags in their hands. No, I'm not saying that it was the spouse's betrayal that prompted such changes, but the fact that they played an important role is a fact.

It's a paradox, but these tireless fighters for the integrity of the family hearth are waiting only for admiration: "Oh, what a strong woman she is! How she values her family!" And just try to hint that the family, for the sake of which all this is being endured, has long been gone! The role of the "unfortunate victim" who gave all of herself to marriage and innocently paid for it is too sweet, you just can't give it up!

If such a role and the described prospects do not suit you, then spit on the advice of mothers and grandmothers and build a relationship with your husband on a spree in a different way.

For example, women's magazines are full of scientific (and not so) treatises: "How to defeat a rival", "1001 ways to convict a husband of treason", "200 ways to become the only one", the main purpose of which is to convince you that "jealousy is from self-doubt and feelings of possessiveness "(by the way, they are not far from the truth). And then there are tips on how to overcome this very self-doubt, with the help of which to return to the bosom of the family a spree (or just about to take a spree) husband. And all this against the backdrop of stubborn statistics, which asserts that almost none of the men get divorced because of their mistress.

Here's what a man will do when he finds his lady cheating? Will show signs of an offended owner, and thoughts arise in approximately the following order:

1. Stuff your opponent's face.

2. Stuff the cheater's face.

3. Stuff both of them in the face.

4. Throw insidious.

5. And somewhere in the last place, to have a mistress in revenge. Or rather, no longer in revenge, but as a new novel.

What is a woman doing ?! She plans to get revenge! And accordingly, the layout of thoughts is different:

1. Have an affair in revenge.

2. Change your hair or lose weight.

3. Throw the reptile.

Unfortunately, not everyone succeeds in "quitting the bastard", as I have already said, and therefore the presence of a man in his own life can be paid for with such humiliation as "I forgive you, but … so that it will be the last time!" Aha, how! Have you tried to gnaw simple crackers yourself when there is an exotic cake on the table with a vulgar signboard "Eat me!"? That's just it. It is ridiculous to hope that a man who has tasted the delights of extramarital affairs, on the right occasion, will beat himself on the hands, saying: "No, I promised my wife."

There is a way out: to shift the focus! Don't look for a reason: why did he do it, maybe I'm a bad wife? Do not let the thought that they are trying to compare you, or looking for something better. Statistics is a stubborn thing, and it convincingly shows that campaigns "to the left" are nothing more than attempts to assert themselves in their own eyes or in the eyes of their comrades. What have you got to do with it ?! A man solves his problems, which he cannot (or does not want) to tell you about. Why? This is another question. In this situation, your task is not to get into the clinic of neuroses. So, do not shift responsibility for his behavior. Shout, swear, break the dishes … Wipe your feet on him for being caught like a boy. This will teach him a good lesson and will teach him vigilance. Of course, this does not guarantee against repeated betrayal, but in any case, you will no longer know about it. If necessary, you can use clause 1. - if the conditions allow (whatever one may say, but you still received an indulgence!). Or you can go straight to step 2 if the conditions DO NOT allow.

It would be unfair not to mention one more exit from the family peak. But it is only available to VERY wise women!

They do not dissolve in marriage, their life is not connected by the emotional umbilical cord with the "one and only", therefore the word "betrayal" is not included in their vocabulary. Their wisdom lies in a simple motto: "Marriage is not two halves, it is a UNION of two integral personalities" and further by definition: the spouse does not belong to me physically (and this is mutual), I cannot dispose of his body, which means I cannot blame his physical treason, and if so, then the problem is absent!

Think about it, maybe this is the prevention of marital infidelity. After all, as you know, it is the forbidden fruit that is sweet, and if there is no prohibition, then it is no longer interesting to "eat".