I love it when I am loved

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Popular rumor says: "A woman loves with her ears," and men, hanging noodles on lovely female ears, brazenly use it. And so, they say, there was, there was Don Juan, who succeeded in this matter a fabulous number of times. This is not Casanova, the seducer of souls and tempter of bodies! This is the highest aerobatics, the high art of seduction, when the "victim", she is passionately desired, and then treacherously abandoned lady, in fact, a real lucky woman who survived the SUCH that we all, feminines, dream of.

And we dream, according to the general stereotype, of compliments, confessions, romantic outpourings and other signs of obsession with us. They love me - it means I am beautiful and deserve …

Sometimes it seems that the presence of a man in nature who likes us is a kind of "quality mark". Whether a young, mature man or a respectable old man has fallen in love with a woman is a young, mature man or a respectable old man - it does not matter, the main thing is to get this certificate of "OTK": a product without marriage (in the sense that it is free from defects).

"I like that you are not sick with me …" - is sung in a famous song, the popularity of which can hardly be surpassed by modern hits. You listen to it, and the longing spreads through your body - how many of them, not embraced, not converted to their faith, wander around the planet! Well this is with how many "a heavy globe of the earth will not swing under our feet" … After all, how many men are in the world - wow, even if you spend a few minutes on each one, you won't have time to cover everyone …

Why is it so important to be loved?!? But why?

"A caress - it is pleasant for a cat," is another common phrase that tells about the healing power of love, expressed in stroking the scruff of the neck, scratching behind the ears and pronouncing pleasant words. Have you ever seen the eyes of a girl talking about how some idiot tried to meet her on the street? “Can you imagine,” she tells her friend, “he asked me what time it was, and he LOOKED THIS!”. The girl's eyes are burning, there is a blush on her cheeks, adrenaline in the blood, and it doesn't matter if the guy really wanted to meet or was still interested in the time …

Often, when you listen to conversations between friends, it seems that they need men for this - throwing their legs over their legs, casually say: "And mine was yesterday …". Or to boast that someone is drying up, tormenting himself with unrequited love, to which she (ah!) Cannot answer.

Even the peasants know that we measure all of them on "ours" and "strangers", who will "bite" and who will not look (Bastard!). What is it worth to somehow appear on the horizon for an unfamiliar woman (to appear in the company or just enter the office), as immediately all other women turn on the "X-ray": "Aha, is she beautiful? How is she dressed? And what about the figure?".. "And even if the" researchers "have very cool relations with the present men (friends, work colleagues), they will still make it clear to the newcomer that this is their territory! And basta, don't you dare to let your tail go, otherwise … And it is interesting to observe how the women who are already in the company, and, so to speak, who know their place in the hierarchy (this is not even said out loud, just everyone knows that Dunya is from the 4th department - the most beautiful, and Sveta has long legs, and Nata is the soul of the company, etc.), how they greet a new one. Yeah, surreptitiously peered and froze. If you are ugly, a rogue and a gray mouse, you can condescendingly show a friendly disposition. If "so, nothing", and the team itself consists of "nothing too" young ladies - they are ready to accept a new one, demonstrating in every possible way that "we are above all this gossip about female bitches, we are not like that." But if a beauty or just a charming girl appears, to whom men stick, despite freckles and acne … There can be only one outcome: she is forced to be accepted, but not loved. The team is divided into those who are restrainedly polite with her, and those who are overly attentive (the latter hope that next to such a steal and they will get something).

Why can't you find such barbarism among men? Because they are in life in a more advantageous role of "observers" and "evaluators"? And we - 24 hours on the podium in the light of Jupiters! And woe to those representatives of the stronger sex who dared to show us insidious neglect! After all, only women could come up with a toast solemnly pronounced at bachelorette parties, about the fact that "everyone who did not want us to die".

There is a very interesting young science - memetics … She studies psychic viruses, or memes, which, like vampires, make a person act to please them. Stereotypes are also memes, they live happily ever after, because they are passed down from generation to generation … For example, "A man must build a house, plant a tree and give birth to a son" is a meme strategy that sets the program for a lifetime. So, love is considered the strongest and most viable meme. "Love is the main thing in our life," is a well-known "truth", but in fact a meme that makes many women suffer from the absence of this very love, or devote many years of life in an unsuccessful marriage, strive to be the center for a man, and in in turn, to grab all his attention, so that "albeit inferior, but mine", or rather, but the main thing is that he IS, the rest is production costs.

Recently, a computer virus spread by e-mail roamed the earth, destroying a lot of equipment in various countries. His success was in the fact that the body of the letter read: "I love you!" Well, how, tell me, how not to open such a letter - the hand will not rise immediately to send it to the trash! And computers paid for it.

"Loving others is a heavy cross" is another phrase that implies that one must suffer, suffer, and still carry it, heavy, uncomfortable, on oneself! Is it necessary? Who and what makes us carry it? Ever wondered? If love is God, will it take on such ugly forms? And maybe it is our endless stereotypes that prevent us from understanding what LOVE really is?

Learn to live in peace with yourself!