Tips for wives from mistresses

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

How to determine if he has someone on the side? The mistresses know best of all. The Cleo correspondent questioned women who had ties to married people. And here's what advice they gave their wives.

Sudden impotence

My boyfriend told me that his wife got tired of him in bed. "One and the same, the post is continuous, no variety." No matter how trite it sounds, mistresses are given for bed pleasures. My Edik got up to this … I'm sure that, returning home, he was no longer good for anything. He left everything with me. So if there is less sex in a relationship, in my opinion, this is a wake-up call. Here, whatever lies, but the facts are stubborn things. I am surprised at my wife, who for a long time did not know about anything, what she did at night? Maybe they have mutually lost interest in each other? This is my advice to wives.

Look at deeds

I had two married lovers. The first is a creative person, his wife bored him, everyday life (she just gave birth). I was looking on the side of love and admiration, which were lacking at home. He spent all his free time with me, including weekends and holidays. The wife was at home with the child. I lied that I was with my friends at the next art party. She believed that some kind of fool was not of this world, but he was an egoist. Well, what is there to advise? Do you think that if he is an artist, then he has one creativity with inspiration on his mind? I saw his inspiration - in bed. I recommend that wives take off their pink glasses and do not trust beautiful words. Look at things.

The second is a colleague. He disappeared all the time at work, only came home to spend the night. He stayed with me at work until late, sometimes went to his friends' apartment. Zhenya sang that there is a lot of work and it is necessary to earn money. For some reason, both in the first and in the second case, the wives called their husbands very rarely. And in my opinion, if a peasant suddenly has a lot of work, or something urgent, or he needs to stay late, it's time to check, this leads to suspicion.

Try to surprise him - drive up suddenly, like by accident, etc. God takes care of those who are taken care of (this means that suddenly the husband really works in the sweat of his brow).

New words

I was on both sides of the barricades: both a mistress and a wife, whose husband "runs". I had no idea that my husband had someone until my lover advised me. I just began to notice that my new man was catching words from my vocabulary (I’m a designer), and suddenly I saw the light of my husband: for the last few months he often talked about jurisprudence (his work is not connected with this) and cooking. I thought at first that these were his new hobbies, but just in case I checked it out. Exactly! The mistress is a lawyer, she advises their firm, in addition, she is a big lover of homemade baked goods. And once I watched my lover walking down the street with his wife. So, he tried to walk half a body ahead of his wife, physically increasing the distance. And then she noticed the same with her.

Why curses?

I had three married lovers, all very neat, as if on selection. All families have survived. We followed the signs carefully - hair, smells, I generally tried not to use perfume before a date (they asked). Never called them, no text messages. One of them always took me on a business trip. The working legend was this (in case of unexpectedness it should have covered it): "A colleague at work, the coordinator of our urgent project, is traveling (will be, will be) with me." Never pierced. He was very afraid that his wife would find out. When I talked to her on the phone, I curry favor. In my opinion, if a man is fawning, this is suspicious, he ought to look …

Seek and find

Wives, dust off your ears, don't trust your husbands! Everyone lies, but not everyone comes across. If you realize that you are not a wife, but a Woman, you will quickly understand what is what. If you suspect something, but there are no facts, look. You will find a second SIM card, think about it. Delayed from work - it's time to run around. Often goes on business trips - even more so. Unscrew first-aid kits and pockets for condoms, keep track of what kind of underwear you wear, whether you pop in before leaving and after going to the bathroom … Go to e-mail, ICQ, read phone transcripts, cell phones and so on.

Dodging when you kiss him after work? Watch out! Hasn't slept with you for more than two weeks? It's time to take action. Why stand on ceremony with a traitor? Sniff it, after all, what are you given your nose for? Do not waste money on detectives, traces of treason will surely show up. I say this as an experienced mistress, it is impossible to hide fornication for a long time. If you still can't see it, I know for a fact that you don't want to see it! It is not profitable for you to see it!

Hamit means he doesn't love

And my lover and I were lucky. His wife did not know how to use a computer at all, so we corresponded and made appointments by e-mail. He wrote me such letters … I do not understand why he did not want to leave his wife, did not love her at all. Was so rude on the phone! If your husband is rude to you, you shouldn't ignore it! I asked: doesn't the wife guess? She says: no, because I, they say, perfectly satisfy her at night (he was a real sex giant). So she loses her vigilance, she thinks I'm just a natural boor, got used to it … So if the husband regularly performs his marital duties, it still does not mean anything! There may be other symptoms as well.

Why so happy?

I was the mistress of my friend's husband. Yes, that's such a creep. But I honestly fell in love, he too. Their family had three children, and we decided not to change anything. But for me the behavior of my friend is still a mystery (she never learned anything). The fact is that we made a lot of mistakes with him. Well, for example: I loved white lilies, he often gave them to me. And feeling guilty, and at the same time. A friend of mine once said to me: “Listen, I can't understand - what's the matter. I hate white lilies, Pashka seems to know about it, but he has been giving it all the time lately, but I’m not comfortable telling him to bring roses. And in general, he became so strange. He walks happy, as if he won some prize …"

Here it is! Dear wives, if your chosen one suddenly began to forget some important little things from your common past, do not leave it unattended. And if he, moreover, out of the blue fell into the mood of the bouquet-candy period of his life - even more so.

Looking for a reason to quarrel

My lies are usually simple. When he was going to run out of the house to see me on a date, he began to find fault with his wife and look for an excuse to quarrel, so that under the guise of being "gotten out" of him, he would leave. Usually, when his wife asked where he soaped, he answered: "To his mistress." And my wife calmed down, well, she never believed. Sometimes cunning husbands come across, and the more cunning, the more trusting their wives are. And my white hair in the car came across a couple of times, and the seat was pushed back, and he lied in his blue eye that he did not give anyone a lift, and she, they say, had glitches. And she believed!

New tricks in bed

I had a very sexy man, so advanced in bed. I gave him everything. I have some erotic habits, my own style. Once he confessed to me that he began to try these habits with his wife. I was scared (I didn't want to beat him off, I was married myself): "So, after all, she will understand that you have someone!" And he quickly stopped. So if your husband suddenly changes his usual behavior in bed, you should pay attention to this. And one more thing: we had a strict schedule of meetings, three times a week, he taught his wife that at this time he had things to do. Once I was unable to meet with him. But he still did not go home, wandered somewhere so as not to arouse suspicion in his wife!

These were advice to wives from mistresses. We hope you never need them.