Jealousy manipulation

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

The time is approaching twelve, but it’s still gone. You rush from corner to corner and from speculation to speculation. I got hit by a car, attacked by hooligans or … A sudden guess shakes my mind. So that's where all these phone calls, unexpected business trips and strange delays come from! The returned husband can explain his lateness as he pleases, the credit of trust has been exhausted. You already know exactly what the matter is, there is only a little left to decide - what to do with all "this".

Down with your rival!

Each of us, at least once in our life, has been in a situation where jealousy obscures our eyes, and our hands are itching from the desire to scratch out the eyes of our faithful and pluck feathers on the twiddling tail, which fell on his playful gaze. Of all the possible options, this one is the most losing, but the most frequently used. According to criminal statistics, 20% of all domestic crimes are committed on the basis of jealousy.

Quite often the case ends in murder. The popularity of such a bloodthirsty method is ensured by the speed of execution and the ability to release steam to the full extent. However, the effectiveness of such showdowns leaves much to be desired. Execution of a rival is unlikely to force the latter to abandon her inclinations. And her good physical condition will seriously jeopardize your chances of winning. But even in the event of a "favorable" outcome of the fight, you are by no means insured against troubles. It is very likely that the victory will have to be celebrated at the nearest police station. And there it is disgusting, cold and poorly fed. Therefore, it is worth thinking three times before giving free rein to your hands.

Well, hold on, honey!

You can make a showdown with Him. This, of course, is much more logical, but the result can again disappoint. If the goal is to slap the bastard and kick him out, then why not. But if there is a desire to keep him close to his person, assault, most likely, will not help. It is unlikely that, having received the proper portion of the slap in the face, he will kindle to you with sincere love and fierce passion.

Men generally cannot stand scandals, and especially public ones. Although, for example, handsome Banderas is tolerant of constant showdowns with his jealous wife Melanie Griffith and only chuckles condescendingly, looking at her irrepressible temperament.

However, not everyone is so patient. Most normal men will react normally to an attempt to convict them of infidelity, that is, they will try by any means to avoid a scandal. If you do not allow him to do this, your attractiveness in his eyes will drop dramatically.

Silence is gold

What is left? Pretend that nothing happened, and reluctantly continue to smile, looking into the deceitful eyes of your betrothed. Why not? This tactic sometimes has a stunning effect. She has been used for many years by the wife of the unbalanced and prone to vice Ozzy Osbourne, Sharon Osbourne. It was patience and the ability to close our eyes to the obvious facts in time that allowed this marriage to exist for such a long time. Apparent "ignorance" provides a lot of room for maneuver.

You do not have to show yourself and others the torment of wounded pride, as well as listen to many sighs of sympathy and solidarity.

But you still have time to think over everything and solve the situation in your favor, thereby keeping the faithful within the legal marriage.

No words will help in relations with the so-called womanizers. Throwing thunder and lightning at the head of the "ladies' man" is absolutely useless. He will either sincerely repent every time and continue his adventures, or your intolerance will make him "make his legs".

In his autobiography, Andrei Konchalovsky honestly admitted that there would not be so many wives in his life if it were not for their desire to put him on a short leash. At the same time, women with enviable constancy are caught on the attractiveness and masculine charm of womanizers.

Realizing a full account of the "defect" of the chosen one, the woman's heart still hopes to eradicate this vice over time. Empty, I must say, hopes. Jerry Hall, one of the many wives of the famous Mick Jagger, realized this too late. Demonstrating to the press tears over a divorce from a loving rocker, she admonished future victims of unfaithful husbands: "After all, it is not he who will have to change his habits, but you have to come to terms with his weaknesses."

The homewrecker

In the heart of every married woman, this word evokes vague anxiety. Well, how can you find some kind of freak and blow your family hearth to smithereens? And where, one wonders, do such vile creatures come from? And from the same place where we are from. After all, they, "lovebirds", are no different from the majority of the fairer sex, and if desired, each of us can join their ranks, without experiencing the slightest remorse. Because any Separator is firmly convinced that:

A) you do not suit him at all;

B) it does not suit you at all;

C) the best thing for both of you is to separate;

D) the best thing for both of them is to get together.

Tears and appeals to conscience break on this "iron" logic. Women's confidence in her destiny to this particular man (even if he has been hopelessly married for a long time) is unshakable. Therefore, any attempts to put pressure on pity or call the Razluchnitsa to order are doomed to failure in advance. The most terrible enemy of the Razluchnitsa is the time during which she manages to understand what "happiness" she has won for herself. Surprisingly, during this time, you may also come to similar conclusions.

A fight with a shadow

However, all these are cases when there is a reason for jealousy. You know exactly what you are dealing with and therefore raise well-founded suspicions. A man, of course, will do his best to deny, but in the depths of his soul (sometimes even very deeply) he recognizes your correctness and the validity of your claims. And this will give you additional "benefits" when you sort things out. It's another matter when jealousy is irrational. Are you jealous of him:

• to his ex-wife, who has now safely departed abroad for permanent residence;
• to all the women he sees, and to hypothetical ones too;
• to the television with which he spends so much time;
• for the same reason - to a car, a lathe, a fishing rod and a doctoral dissertation.

In fairness, it should be noted that such jealousy can bring anyone to white heat. And it is not surprising that at one point he will not stand it and:

- will silently set off in an unknown direction;

- will do the same, but not silently;

- will try to justify your suspicions and will get himself a passion on the side;

Don't let him relax

In order not to frighten off a partner, wild jealousy must be carefully hidden. However, you should not completely abandon this tonic. It is only important to decide on the dosage. If you flirt recklessly with all males, return home at half past three in the night, conduct mysterious telephone conversations, and even henna is a bad sign for him. Either your faithful has absolutely no feeling of jealousy (and this happens occasionally), or he no longer cares about you. This happens even less often.

Even a man who has stopped loving us in his soul always remains the owner, who does not tolerate encroachment on his own, even unnecessary, trophy.

Therefore, it is sometimes even useful to create a halo of light intrigue around yourself, as it makes the man look around less and look after you better.

In general, if you wish, you can even knock out a spark of jealousy from a stone. But the handling of fire requires extreme caution. What good, from this spark a flame will kindle, in which your trust and love will safely burn. So be careful with fire!