Intimate setting

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

On frosty winter evenings, when there is absolutely nothing to do, you don't want to leave the house, devote yourself and your time to your beloved: cheer up yourself and him - arrange a romantic evening.

It's great to wake up with a clearly lucid thought: "Today is my day!". For some time you try to understand what is special that should happen today, and only when you shake off the remnants of sleep, in your head, a running line flashes: "Today my beloved will come to visit!"

Then it's time to start creating an intimate environment in which the beloved will feel like a fish in water, and not just a fish, but at least a sturgeon, or, at worst, salmon.

Start with the simplest thing: there must be order at home. He may not give a damn about him, but you need it first of all - if your gaze constantly bumps into things scattered around the room, you simply will not be able to completely relax and concentrate on your beloved.

Close the windows - isolate yourself and him from the whole world. It is unlikely that you will feel at ease if someone is staring from the window opposite. You are alone, there should be no distractions.

So, about candles - everything is clear. The more - the better, take the "long-playing", so that later you do not sweat because one or the other is extinguished. Place them all over the room, do not concentrate in one place. Pour water into a flat vase, put floating candles in there, and then, when you light them, unprecedented patterns will dance on the walls: fire and water … If he brings flowers, be sure to put them in the room where you will be: they will delight the eye too, and him. You can also throw flower petals into the same vase of candles and scatter them in places where the "stages" of a romantic evening are supposed: in the bathroom, on the bed, etc. The analogue of candles is Christmas tree lamps. Moreover, in light of the recent holidays, they will look very organic. A friend of mine hangs garlands around the room, securing them with clothespins where necessary. So, we figured out the lighting. The main thing is that it should not be bright: soft light, twilight.

Music is also essential. It shouldn't be loud and intrusive. Perhaps "Enigma" is appropriate for the occasion.

Don't forget about the flavors. Pleasant and relaxing scents promote intimacy. What to choose? Oil, smoking sticks or scented candles? The main thing is to be sure that the chosen aroma does not cause gag reflexes in your beloved. Perhaps you can stop at the "Oil of the Ocean". Delicate and fresh scent, it will tone and envelop in the romance of the sea breeze.

Now think about dinner. The main thing is not to overdo it. He won't come to eat! Prepare something light and original. Maybe sushi? And then flavored green tea to cheer up a little? Serve the table beautifully. Why not set the table in an oriental style: on the floor, with a burning Chinese lantern in the middle (it will harmonize well with the candles), sticks and bowls. The beloved will take care of the drinks: ask him to bring something light, otherwise all your work will be in vain. By the way, mulled wine is great to drink in winter. Then let your beloved bring red wine, and do not forget to take care of spices (cinnamon, cloves) and lemons.

We need to think over all the little things - so that everything you need is at hand. If you or he keep running out of business all the time, the intimate atmosphere will not work - it will disperse, "like smoke from white apple trees."

And, of course, take care of yourself. You have to look your best, from your toes to the ends of your hair. Do not overdo it with makeup: makeup should be light, but visible in candlelight. Use lip gloss and eyelash gloss, the pearlescent pencil will accentuate the line of the eyes. It is better not to surprise your loved one with a new perfume - the smell should be familiar, because unexpected novelty often repels and frightens.

Yana Shakhnazarova