Nadya Ruchka: "I only had a permanent relationship"

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The soloist of the "Brilliant" group Nadezhda Ruchka is an exceptionally pleasant girl. Singer Pen very easily makes contact, with humor and frankly answers any questions. This time we talked about decency, men and about immediate plans, which Nadia hardly builds in advance.

Blitz survey "Cleo":

- Are you friends with the Internet?

- I can’t say that I’m talking to him. (Smiles).

- What is an unacceptable luxury for you?

- Spend three hours in a row at beauty salons.

- What animal do you associate yourself with?

- With a forest raven: they are large, large, just like in a fairy tale.

- Did you have a nickname as a child?

- Yes, and it seems to me that everyone has already guessed which one. Everyone called me Pen. My surname is sonorous. (Smiles).

- What turns you on?

- Irresponsibility and insincerity.

- What is your psychological age?

- I feel at my age, and I really like it.

In the program "Dancing with the Stars" you were one of the brightest participants. How hard was it for you to train?

Of course, it was not easy, but I don't really listen to the body. When you train for the fifth hour, you understand how difficult it is, even the second wind disappears. But since I am a responsible person, I like everything to be clear and on schedule, and I always train to the last.

Which couple did you personally like on the project?

All are very good, we have excellent relations with each other. Julia Zimina is a very pleasant, attentive girl, Ksyusha Sobchak can always find the right words and expressions. Sofiko Shevardnadze is a very attentive, warm and hospitable person, she became a good friend to me. We had a family there, there was no intrigue, although all the journalists, probably, really wanted it. And we didn't want to quarrel over dancing.

Of course, this is a competition, and you are worried, because the whole country is looking at you, but we have a very good situation, so the human attitude towards each other was in the first place.

When compliments are made to you, are you still embarrassed or have you gotten used to your popularity?

To be honest, I'm uncomfortable. It's nice to hear a good word, but when they shower with compliments, you start to doubt and think: why am I being told this? For example, it is unpleasant for me when one of the two girls standing next to each other is given compliments, and the other is not. I think this is uncivilized. For example, I got used to the fact that many people show their attention to me, but after 15 minutes they do things, after which you understand: everything that was said before was a lie. I prefer people to throw less words and do more. But, for example, when a woman compliments me, it is really valuable for me, since I believe the compliment of a woman, and especially a beautiful one. After all, men speak mostly when they want something from you.

Nadia, how are you resting after work? What do you need to rehabilitate after a hard day?

It is not at all necessary for me to take a few weeks and fly to the sea, it is enough that after work no one ruffles my nerves. Sometimes I like to be alone with myself: watch a movie, listen to music. Mom often comes to me, and we love to chat with her in the evenings. I never have friction with my mother. Previously, there could be questions, but over time they have already understood each other. I can talk with my mother about anything, I trust her, because she will always tell you what is best.

Tell us about your debut in Mugs

I was very glad when I was offered the role, as I always wanted to act in films. Even when I entered a university in Moscow, at first I dreamed of going to the theater. I really want to continue playing movies. Of course, I understood that I would not be given the main role. And that would be too much: the first experience - and immediately the first main role.

I am sure that many, having seen the advertisement, thought: another singer decided to act in a movie, but then I moved away from this thought and realized that if you pay attention to such things, you can go crazy. I did what I wanted for a long time.

Why should I give it up? Because of evil tongues? They will always be, and such people are not worthy of paying attention to them.

- You're a night owl or an early bird?

- Owl. It takes a lot of effort to wake me up in the morning.

- Do you have a talisman?

- Yes, the cross, which is always with me.

- How do you relieve stress?

- In my free time I watch a cartoon or my favorite movie. The main thing is that no one jerks me at this moment, because I want to be alone with myself.

- Where did you spend your last vacation?

- I left for the States in August. Vacationing in Los Angeles.

- What melody is on your mobile?

- It used to be Sade, but now it's just a phone call.

- What is your favorite aphorism?

- This is the inscription of my tattoo: "Maximum power is power over oneself."

Who would you like to play?

I liked the role of a tough agent, but I want to play a different character. For example, I would gladly agree to get used to the role of a creative person, albeit with an unhealthy psyche.

Do you have time to follow the food with such a rhythm?

I have time not only to cook myself, but also to clean the house. Since childhood, I have been accustomed to order and cleanliness. At my house, I would even say, there is a soldier's order. I clean myself, I cook myself too. I prefer homemade, simple food. Especially when I come home after work tired, I can't sit and show off for hours in a restaurant, I want to pick up and eat chicken with my hands at this moment.

Are you ready to start a family, have children?

You know, when you have a permanent relationship that lasts several years, when you live with a person, it is no different from a family. You are just as loyal to him, you are in a hurry home to see you as soon as possible, so this is family. Paintings, rings, children on schedule - I have never had such a clear plan. I believe that everything comes in due time, you just need to consciously live and not go with the flow. You take each step gradually: take one step, then take another. I have friends who always make a bunch of plans, but do nothing. I never say that I have a plan, as I almost never have one.

I am always ready for constancy, since all my life I have only had a permanent relationship. There was simply no stamp in the passport. I can't even trump a lot of men.

For me, the family is the place where you and your partner feel confident, where you worry about each other, worry. For example, I always treat my partner the way my parents treat each other. They have been together for a very long time and cannot live without each other. But it is not always possible to transfer parenting relationships to your own.

Will you be strict as a mother to your child?

First of all, I want to be a friend to the child. Children should always be given the opportunity to share. I do not want there to be a border, so that my son or daughter are afraid to confess something to me. For example, when I got myself a tattoo, I presented my mother with a fact. I remember how I came to the salon, walked around a little and decided that I wanted this very inscription.

Tell me, what do you value most in men?

I don't like stupid men who need to be commanded. I like strong personalities, and this applies to both men and women. If a person is strong, he is not afraid to show his weakness. When he is confident in you, he knows: you will always perceive everything correctly. And I also need a man with whom I can laugh. By the way, I always see, as it were from afar, a person with whom you can laugh. A sense of humor for me is one of the defining qualities.

Can you call yourself strong?

Many people say that I am strong, as I always try to keep myself in hand. And when I start to relax a little, it first of all starts to annoy me myself. If I cannot organize myself, then who will I be able to build?

Here it is, Nadezhda Handle.