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Why I changed: men's stories

Why I changed: men's stories

“Why did you cheat on your wife? Under what conditions would you not cheat? " - such questions the correspondent of "Cleo" asked all the men he knew. It turned out that there were enough traitors around. And everyone has an explanation for their behavior

"One day he raised his hand to me "

"One day he raised his hand to me "

Be patient, calm down, accept - many women so dissuade themselves from the only right thing to do. When the closest person turns out to be your main enemy, it's hard to believe. Frightened, humiliated, it is difficult to make a tough decision and stop domestic violence. Two strong women were able to. They asked us to tell their stories to help others become strong

You are like a widow and I am like a bachelor

You are like a widow and I am like a bachelor

From time immemorial, civil marriage was considered a relationship that was not illuminated by the sacrament of a wedding. Time passed, morals changed, and the familiar term "civil marriage" acquired a different meaning. Now this is the name for alliances based on feelings and oral agreement, but not officially recognized by either the church or the state. I was interested in the opinions of those who live with their partners without formalities or adhere to such a position. Here are the answers I heard from passers-by on the street: I

What to give for Mother's Day to mom and mother-in-law

What to give for Mother's Day to mom and mother-in-law

Ideas of what to give mom and mother-in-law for Mother's Day. Gift Ideas List

Auspicious days for a wedding in August 2021

Auspicious days for a wedding in August 2021

Auspicious days for a wedding in August 2021 according to the church and lunar calendar. Specialist recommendations

Best birthday present for husband

Best birthday present for husband

Consider a list of the best birthday gifts for your husband. Great ideas and basic rules when choosing a gift. Useful tips, photos, videos

Psychotherapist reviews

Psychotherapist reviews

A question that deviates reasoning slightly to the side: do you know what the Oedipus complex is? I think that quite a few readers will immediately and without any problems be able to answer this question

Auspicious days for a wedding in June 2021

Auspicious days for a wedding in June 2021

Auspicious days for a wedding in June 2021 according to the church and lunar calendar. Auspicious days table

12 funniest male habits

12 funniest male habits

These features of the stronger sex make us smile. Even the most brutal macho is sometimes so cute and funny

Died Larisa Shoigu - State Duma deputy

Died Larisa Shoigu - State Duma deputy

Biography of Larisa Shoigu - State Duma deputy. Her multifaceted work in medicine and politics. What is the cause of death of a politician?

Where to look for your husband's stash

Where to look for your husband's stash

There are many tales about the man's money stash. Some put it down the toilet - for beer, while others save and save, and then once - and bought a car for themselves. Where to look for a husband's stash and how a wife should react to her husband's big secret, we tried to figure it out

A holiday to take with you

A holiday to take with you

He stops fishing and rarely visits the stadium. He stops fighting, like the Porthos of Alexandre Dumas, for the sake of the fight itself - and begins to avoid it, participating in it, only if absolutely necessary. He refuses, albeit hypothetical, but the opportunity - to make love with Klava Schiefer and Sandra Bullock, and with both at once, in a group sex. He gives up all this voluntarily, for the sake of her alone and marries

Pregnancy unexpectedly

Pregnancy unexpectedly

Pregnancy is probably one of those important conditions when you need to act instantly. After all, every day the baby inside experiences the same as his mother. And if a mother cannot understand in any way whether she wants to be one or not, suffers and anathematizes everything and everyone around, the baby takes all this negative at his own expense. Here you don't even need to go into a special metaphysics, it is enough to imagine what kind of "chemistry of misfortune" is transmitted to him from his mother along with nutrients and oxygen

Curiosities at weddings: life stories

Curiosities at weddings: life stories

Almost no wedding is complete without overlays, embarrassment, and funny incidents. But then there is something to remember. After all, when everything goes decorously, strictly according to the plan, it's so boring

Family games

Family games

Every day you come home tired with a naive hope that today your sweetheart will finally meet you not with indifferent silence or dissatisfied word, but with tenderness and affection. And also preferably a ready-made dinner and a hot bath. But every day you realize more and more that your relationship leaves much to be desired. Now what? "Divorce, slippers by mail"?

Choose happiness

Choose happiness

Lenka got married very early. At 18, she was still a stout child with a childish enthusiastic idea of life. Her future husband Sergei, 4 years older than her, took the lead in their marriage. More precisely, he simply insisted that they get married, saying that he loved her and could not imagine his life without her. Did Lenka love Sergei? Respected - yes, did not want to lose him - no doubt, but as for love … But what is it all about - love? Is there anything known about this girls

Child development psychology

Child development psychology

Marina, a successful businesswoman, came to the psychologist Tatiana Shishova's appointment with two problems: her loser husband and an uncontrollable teenage son. "My Gena works in a design bureau with a small salary, loves to play organola and read smart books. She is uninitiative, lacking, not pressured - a mattress is a mattress. Even a nail cannot be hammered in without swinging," said Marina. It was evident that only Kiryusha's son, who often witnessed the parent, kept her from divorce

The choice is made by the man

The choice is made by the man

Once it was a man who offered a woman to enter into an alliance with him. The woman was free to agree or refuse. Quite often the woman had several offers from interested men “in the asset”. I chose from them. The luxury of making the choice itself belonged only to high-ranking persons who could not be afraid of refusal. Of course, there were special cases in the ranks of "decent" ladies (it is worth remembering Pushkinskaya Tatiana - "I am writing to you, what more?"). But make it clear

Vladimir Menshov - biography and personal life

Vladimir Menshov - biography and personal life

Who is Vladimir Menshov, his biography, personal life, photo. Does he have a family? Cause of death

What to give for a tin wedding

What to give for a tin wedding

10 years of family life is a significant and happy date for both spouses. This is the first significant anniversary. As you know, each wedding anniversary has its own name. To find out in more detail what is the name of the 10th wedding anniversary and what is the best gift for it to each other, you will learn from our article

Animals in Mom's Life

Animals in Mom's Life

Poor mother, with undisguised horror, looked at the wall, on which sat a half-thousand of little yellow spiders, who were staring at her with the same genuine interest. Mom couldn't even speak. Pointing her finger in their direction, she muttered some incoherent phrases, of which it was only possible to understand: "Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! Ha! As if it were so easy to do. I tried to push this army back into the jar, but as soon as this visual aid

Housing problem

Housing problem

A year ago she got married and gave birth to a son. They live with their husband, in his three-room apartment on the top floor of an embroidered five-story building, in an entrance chosen by homeless people. With them live his mother, sister with a diagnosis of schizophrenia, her son, younger brother; in addition, relatives and friends are constantly visiting. The mother-in-law sells homemade vodka, so the doorbell does not fall silent, and all the district alcoholics greet each other amicably when they meet

Famous widowers and widows

Famous widowers and widows

Among the world's stars, there are many people who have survived the death of the second half. And each of them coped with the trouble in their own way

Early development: finding a middle ground

Early development: finding a middle ground

There is a lot of controversy on the topic of early development today. This issue is vividly discussed on the forums of children's and family sites. Some parents start teaching their child to read and write literally from the cradle. And some teachers believe that loading the brain of a three-year-old with reading and mathematics is useless, and sometimes even dangerous for the psyche. In any case, the issue is solved individually each time. There are no two identical children, just as there are no identical mothers. Let's try to figure out what useful things can give us

Family affairs through the eyes of journalists and a psychologist

Family affairs through the eyes of journalists and a psychologist

But a woman in Russia is as powerless as she was many years ago. The trouble is that her lack of rights cannot but be reflected in the institution of motherhood. The raped girl does not report the rapist because she does not know her rights and is afraid of shame and condemnation. And often her mother drags her by the hand to the police. In the still soviet organs, she receives another portion of moral humiliation, because the cop works with her in the same way as with a repeat offender. Doesn't know how to do it differently. The psychological trauma goes deeper and becomes

The unloved is waiting for him at the window

The unloved is waiting for him at the window

You consider yourself quite an adult and emancipated person, it is difficult to knock the earth out from under her feet. And yet, at the words of the most beloved, gentle, talented, intelligent man: "I am married," you shudder. "Certainly this will never happen to me," you thought. - "I will never be in the role of a mistress" … You should not have sworn: the tricks of fate can only be envied! Personally, I never imagined that one day I would meet a man who would turn all my

A wife or a mother for a husband?

A wife or a mother for a husband?

“How can this be? I did everything for him! Who was he when we met? And he …”In front of me sits a woman, of course, smart, beautiful, well-groomed, with good taste. And with very angry and hurt eyes

My little invisible friend

My little invisible friend

Do you remember Carlson, the man in his prime, who lived on the roof? And the kangaroo Pafnutia, a friend of the little girl from the movie "Chocolate"? Both were invisible to everyone and seemed to be harmless, as befits good friends. Unless, of course, we forget that Carlson pulled the Kid onto the roof of the skyscraper. And now such a "character" lives in your apartment and communicates with your own child. What to do? And whether to do it at all? First of all, do not brush it off, they say, nonsense ka

Foreign language for the little ones

Foreign language for the little ones

How great it would be if all people from birth spoke several languages! Well, at least the most popular ones in the world. There would be no need to waste time and money on training. In fact, such people exist among us, we simply do not pay attention to them. Children who immediately begin to speak two languages are called bilinguals

Pre-wedding stress: 4 life hacks to avoid it

Pre-wedding stress: 4 life hacks to avoid it

Marry soon? How not to spoil your relationship with the groom and enjoy the wedding preparation process

How to properly plan your wedding budget

How to properly plan your wedding budget

5 secrets of saving money without sacrificing celebration from an experienced wedding planner

It seems like I love: how to understand that the relationship has exhausted itself

It seems like I love: how to understand that the relationship has exhausted itself

He is kind, smart, cute, you have been together for a long time. But you feel that something is gone from the relationship. And you mentally begin to convince yourself: “He is kind. He is good. He loves me. Everything is fine ", but every day the relationship is getting colder, and you are becoming more unhappy

Biography of Vladimir Fortov

Biography of Vladimir Fortov

The cause of death of Vladimir Fortov. Biography and personal life of the ex-president of the Russian Academy of Sciences. Who his parents were. What did the famous physicist die of?

Budget trips in Russia for the May holidays 2018

Budget trips in Russia for the May holidays 2018

Budget trips in Russia for the May holidays 2018. An overview of the most optimal places for an economical travel in Russia for the May holidays. How can you relax in Russia during the holidays? Tourist excursions, medical procedures, photos

Playing tennis

Playing tennis

The popularity of Russian tennis players has reached its climax. Marat Safin, Anastasia Myskina, Maria Sharapova, Elena Dementieva … the whole country knows them by sight. They do not leave the pages of glossy magazines, star in commercials, participate in television projects, appear at social events and parties. Newspapers regularly print their prize money and advertising contract revenues. There is not a single Grand Slam tournament left in the world that would not have obeyed our athletes

Papa Carlo's happiness

Papa Carlo's happiness

Have you ever met a person (emotionally healthy and not a prisoner) who could live without money and be happy? Imagine that you have all the necessary things, but you cannot purchase anything on your own. Every day you meet people who can buy any little thing at any moment, and you can only look at it, realizing that many years will pass before you can do the same. In this world of abundance, where everyone can find something for themselves, there is nothing for you. Everything

Model agency for children

Model agency for children

And even if a child's career is very successful, and she conquers the world with her 90-60-90, how long is the model's age? Her working age is limited to 35 years. Models at this age are retiring. It's good if you managed to acquire useful connections or a husband in the interval between photo shoots and fashion shows. More often than not, this does not happen. A beautiful woman is not perceived as an intelligent conversationalist and business partner. As a result, at 35, she has to start her life anew. And from scratch: get an education

Self defense for children

Self defense for children

A child should be able to defend himself, to cope with at least a not very sober bully or a raging peer, but you should not turn the whole process of education into mastering martial arts - unless you are the reincarnation of Bruce Lee and are going to raise an actor for the next filming of the film "The Raven", on who will kill him. Quite important here will be the rules invented by Polanik for his "Fight Club" - the most important thing is that the child, learning to defend himself

Baby we have a baby

Baby we have a baby

You can, of course, simply present him with a fact. According to the scenario, in this case, the man is supposed to grunt admiringly and, grabbing you under the white little hands, spin around his axis. But, although all women in the depths of their hearts expect such behavior, the reaction of a lover to a message about an upcoming addition is not always the same as in a movie. It may well be that the beloved on kicks will drive you to have an abortion or squint his eyes and say: "Something I don't remember you, woman." Poet

The family is one. But not husband and wife

The family is one. But not husband and wife

As sociologists rejoiced when they discovered ten years ago that loneliness had ceased to be a social leprosy. They, sociologists, that is, generally take human troubles so close to their hearts that they immediately begin to explain to everyone why and how it happened