Having a baby is not a reason to forget about professional growth. When you remember kindergarten, it distorts you, you have to pay three quarters of your salary to the nanny. There is only one option left: grandma
What real or fictional characters do you find ideal? What exactly seems attractive about them, and are you so sure that you should develop these traits in yourself? Perhaps you have been reading Gone with the Wind for many years and admiring Scarlett O'Hara, but are you sure that you would like to be a wife like her? .. Ideal people - just like an ideal relationship - is a subjective concept. Something individual suits each person, and what seems to be
Are you haunted by Agatha Christie's laurels? Do you want to have some fun, and at the same time collect practical material for your own handwritten detective? I suggest the following: conduct a "fun" test among girlfriends. With a conspiratorial look and slyly squinting, start: "My husband is returning from a business trip …" In response to this promising phrase, without expecting a climax, a friendly laugh … Look carefully - Mashenka laughs heartily, loudly and loudly - here, an innocent creature! Lyudochka hikhi
These activities will not seem like fun and waste of time at all. Child psychologists took part in the development of these programs, and they were created precisely in order to help you correctly and successfully prepare your baby for school, to correct omissions or mistakes made in his development. And the colorfulness and clarity will turn a real lesson into a kind of game and make it easier for the child to perceive new material. Take a closer look, because in order to move to the next level, you need to add
In each of us, our men dream of seeing indefatigable mistresses, agile housewives, sensitive mothers, talented psychoanalysts for themselves. However, it is simply impossible to meet all male expectations, this is contrary to the laws of the universe, common sense and mathematics! Let's count
The number of unions with significant age differences is growing. It is generally accepted that such unions are often involved in self-interest, on the social, career and financial ambitions of the parties, that these are alliances “without a future”, without prospects, accompanied by a lot of difficulties. Let's see from a psychological point of view?
Music is the voice of life. The singing of birds, the voices of animals, and other natural sounds resonate in the human soul. The impact of the world of sounds on a person is really enormous: music even before the birth of a child can affect the development of both his intellectual potential and his physical abilities
But there are also completely inexplicable things. During my second pregnancy, I went with my son to a puppet theater. I kept telling him something and at the same time kept my hand on my stomach. Our baby was already starting to spin and insistently demanded attention to herself. It turned out that I was talking with two children at the same time. Two years later, we again ended up in the same theater. Not so much for my son as for my daughter, I began to tell something. Imagine my surprise when she said: "Yes zn
In sorrow and in joy, in wealth and in poverty, in illness and in health - your beloved solemnly promised to be with you always. So why is he now turning pale, blushing and losing the ability to articulate? His pulse quickens, his breathing is interrupted. With a tremor in his voice, he clarifies: "Honey, do you really want this?" And having heard the irrevocable "Yes", he finally loses his head, as well as sleep, peace and appetite. But this is not about a bank robbery, not about the fate
But, nevertheless, impeccable appearance and intellect remain the main weapon of both ancient Greek getters or Japanese geishas, and modern lovers. With enviable persistence, they pump their muscles, buy up newfangled collections of clothes, dye their hair in unimaginable shades. In short, they put pressure on male instincts (it should be noted that female animals do the same - the brighter, fluffier and hotter you are, the more chances you have to find a partner). Moreover, modern mistresses are very smart! They succeeded
The entertainment industry does not stand still. Every now and then, children's clubs, cafes and play centers are opening in Moscow. The range of their services allows everyone to find for themselves the best option for holding a prom, wedding or a friendly party. But I would like to talk about the most important event in the life of moms and dads - the birthday of their baby. Little tips and tricks will help you make this day truly fun, interesting and unforgettable. Usually, for the birthday of their baby, parents start
Maybe not everything is as simple as it is written in the manuals that are sold for a penny a bunch: become interesting for your husband again, find a common hobby, go to a hairdresser, make him jealous, make a career
The psychology of the relationship between a man and a woman in marriage is very important for maintaining a strong union. Compliance with certain rules will help achieve harmony and mutual understanding
Men are creatures, at first glance, simple and spontaneous, that is, to see through them for lovely ladies does not seem to be particularly difficult. But this is only at first glance. In fact, the peasant soul is full of secrets and mysteries. Yes Yes. And in life there are "a million" refutations of the widespread opinion that all the actions of a man lend themselves to logical explanation. They have everything in a special way. And happiness is also special
Where do we start? It is POSSIBLE to dress up in a wedding outfit before the wedding (try on)! Nothing terrible will happen, all mystical predictions are nonsense. If, nevertheless, the bride believes the legend (and capturing herself before the wedding in a mirror in a wedding dress leads to the fact that this will not happen again in life), you can use a harmless method - just don’t put on a glove, because if the dress is not complete, then this is not an attire yet. Note to those who dress up the festive procession. Decorating wedding cars with red ribbons ed
About 30 minutes later I froze, but the desire to see it through to the end prevailed over the cold and awkwardness. And to give courage and maintain a fighting spirit, I had to turn to the same men's magazine again. “What a pity,” an unknown author lamented in him, “our women do not always understand how important novelty, impromptu and oral sex are for us. We are looking for pleasure on the side, although we could get the same at home.” The bell rang, and thinking about how to deliver l
They invited me, my husband and baby-son to appear in the video of one candidate for deputy, who chose the solution of housing problems as his path to the people. It turned out to be a trifling act to act in the video - we were sitting in the 16-meter living room of my mother's "kopeck piece", rocking the stroller, trying not to knock off the spotlights, and answering the questions: "How many of you live in this apartment?" - "Six and two dogs". "Do you have any hope of purchasing your own home?" - "And what another! & Amp
Somehow it happened that men for the most part live "not for conscience, but for joy" and less often deny themselves the pleasure of having pleasure. And many wives at this time zealously observe the non-existent honor of the family, naively believing that they are playing according to mutually approved rules. Therefore, the news of the betrayal of the dearest half turns out to be so painful. Moreover, the rules have been violated, and the question arises: what to do next? Naturally, first of all, you turn to life experience in
Couples with large age differences are not uncommon. However, if the difference is in favor of a man, then society is condescending to such couples - they say, what can you do, as you know, gray hair in the beard … But when the difference is in favor of a woman, then society is inexorable. Everyone is rebelling, from close relatives on both sides to casual acquaintances. The woman is endowed with all sorts of epithets, and the man is pitied and in every possible way they try to dissuade and "open his eyes." I even know one mother, a cat
"All happy families are equally happy, each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way" - this classic postulate remains relevant today. There can be many reasons for divorce. But they all have one main thing under them - the course of life has accelerated. In a constantly changing world, you manage to live and experience with one partner as much as you could previously manage to do only in 25-30 years of marriage
For some reason, at such moments, you immediately forget all the advantages of your beloved, but all his smallest shortcomings are picturesquely presented to your raging gaze in all their unsightly beauty. And he can't stand the garbage that day (so what if he's at work from seven in the morning to nine in the evening, you don't have to take out his batteries of empty beer bottles!), And he never took you to the disco, and the dishes have never been like washing, and what a flood in the bathroom he leaves behind! And tar
Recently I came across a popular magazine for women. I was amused by the article that foreign brides are very fond of marrying Russian guys. When asked why, - one foreign lady answered: - And you won't get bored with them! Now I am divorcing my Russian husband ….. - So what? - Well, like that. If my husband was an American, for example, then everything would be simple: I would send my lawyer to his lawyer, once or twice they shared everything with us, three - we divorced! And the Russian husband is completely different
It is no secret that in the life of other married couples there comes a moment when it suddenly becomes clear: whatever you do, divorce is inevitable. In addition, the spouses have already, it seems, worn out with each other so much that parting seems to be the best way out. Nevertheless, there is little that can cause such a heat of passions and a storm of emotions like a divorce. As a rule, this process is quite tense, conflictual and scandalous
If a couple of decades ago, women dreamed of getting married as soon as possible, hiding in this way behind the wide back of their husbands from the troubles of life and hoping for a cozy family nest filled with love, warmth and children's hubbub, now, after seeing how modern men have shrunk, ladies want freedom , equality, having a good job and a high salary, and a child … who does not know his biological father. According to statistics, about a quarter of young successful Russian women are ready to conceive a baby and
In the hustle and bustle of the working day, I once again grab the telephone receiver, which almost never stops during the day, and a clear girlish voice, without any preface, loudly and joyfully says: - Mom, it's me. I came. The natural question, "who does she want?" Perhaps I went headlong into work, leaving a few hours a week for the family, but not to the same extent that I forget that I have a grown-up son, not a daughter. And if it happens that my daughter-in-law calls me, then I recognize her by
What date is Motorist Day celebrated in 2019, the exact date of the celebration. How to celebrate this celebration, traditions and signs
Well - she reasoned to herself - I agree that after Manyashka's birthday I had two shifts in a row at the hospital (but I could not then leave this young, newly operated girl unattended). And then, when I returned home and did not have time to sleep properly, they sent for me a briefing, because the case was extraordinary. After all, when I ran into the operating room, it was all covered in blood. I got used to it and knew that at such moments they always call me
What do a Ferre jacket, D&G blouse, Armani jeans and a home dressing gown from a nearby clothing market have in common? Yes, perhaps only that all these things after purchase will have to be washed sooner or later. And here the question inevitably arises: and in fact, with what?
The age of sexual revolution, which brought women the joy of sex without remorse and men the delight of orgasm without commitment, discovered a curious trend in society - the crisis of traditional marriage. The foundation of family relationships is crumbling under the influence of social changes: you can have a lot of sex, with pleasure, in a variety of ways and with different characters; for washing-ironing-cooking, appropriate technical devices, more compact than a wife, were invented and purchased long ago; for construction-h
How many Orthodox Christians will celebrate the Apple Savior. History of Christian celebration rites and traditions, as is customary to celebrate
Yes … yes … my dear, I know that age-old traditions have driven a woman to the cradle, stove and other attributes of the household. I know that a woman in the concept of a man is a mother and a housekeeper ("a mixture of a combine harvester with a vibrator," I once wrote myself). I know that unfairly often we are discriminated against on the basis of gender in spheres far from the comfort and warmth of the family hearth. But don't you think that sometimes we ourselves defend our power over what is given by nature, armed to the teeth with stereotypes, tradition
With the death of the Soviet Union, many religions were born and revived, including Orthodoxy, who got out of the coma in which it had been for almost a century. Nowadays, quite a few couples decide to cement their marriage with the blessing of the church, but this is fraught with not only pleasure, but also difficulties. I decided to talk about this in more detail so that the newlyweds who decided to take such a step would be ready for all the problems. I would like to note in advance that I am not trying to propagandize
Nowadays, everyone wants to know their ancestors, and preferably of noble blood, and so that up to the 7th generation (although genealogists usually calculate them before the 9th): according to some esoteric theories, it is seven generations of ancestors that have a special influence on a person's personality. Sometimes family legends turn out to be the purest truth. Sometimes the other way around
Psychologists advise not to dwell on the problem that has arisen, not to try to immediately start a showdown, but to take at least a little time-out, first think about what you are going to say, what words you will choose, and what you ultimately want to achieve. Problem solutions or self-righteousness statements? But victory in any conflict at the same time means the defeat of your loved one … Conflicts, as a rule, occur in families where there is no clear leadership of one of the spouses. Being