About you 2024, May

What pisses him off

What pisses him off

We know perfectly well what infuriates us about men. What annoys men? After conducting the survey, we learned a lot. It turns out that among the representatives of the stronger sex there are a lot of retrogrades who believe that men can smoke, laugh loudly and swear, but women are strictly forbidden! And in general, in their opinion, a woman should resemble an angel: feminine, gentle, hardworking and at the same time very modest. When reading all these not very pleasant things, remember that only irritable guys answered

The bitter experience of friendship with a man

The bitter experience of friendship with a man

And once something that started so well ended so strangely. We were on our way from the holiday, Stas was in that state when the alcohol he had drunk allowed him to say what in an absolutely sober state my friend would not have said for any gingerbread. It turned out that he "very much appreciates" all our friendship with him, he is pleased to communicate with me, but all this time he, it turns out, LOVED me

Dizzy with Success Vol.2

Dizzy with Success Vol.2

The dependence of the individual on the opinion of the majority, the inability to defend his point of view, lack of faith in his abilities - this is conformism. A conformable person often turns out to be dependent, subordinate to each and every one. His behavior is based on obedience and imitation. He is flexible not due to reason, but due to adaptation - to circumstances, to a leader

How I used the gigolo service

How I used the gigolo service

Once I decided to diversify my leisure time and turn to the services of prostitutes, gigolos, gigolos, priests of love … As soon as they were called on the Internet, which was full of inviting ads for every taste and wallet

Well, who said it was bad to be just a friend?

Well, who said it was bad to be just a friend?

I truly believe in friendship between the sexes. All my friends were exclusively male, and this did not mean at all that I could not find a common language with women, that there were no common interests and similar things. It was just that it was easier and more interesting for me: men are more reliable, less talkative, relationships are durable, and communication is more interesting. After all, it is always nice to know the "purely male opinion" about a particular event. And it took me only a few minutes to win the heart of almost any man

Optimists live longer

Optimists live longer

The sun in early June deprived the holy Russian land of attention. People, tired in winter and, as it should be in the middle lane - in a protracted spring, were offended by the star. It leaves us, you know, without vitamins. Considering that the Russian resident has big problems with the iodine content in food, and it affects, among other things, the mood, we did not meet the summer with smiles from ear to ear on local beaches, but with sad forecasts for the summer, they say, it will be raining

Captivated by temperament

Captivated by temperament

A woman of unbridled opportunity is every man's dream. Her superpowers have such a strong effect on the male psyche that the names of almost all such women are immortalized in history. The first to be noticed in an irresistible craving for debauchery were the ancient Greek forest demons - nymphs. These lustful persons, appointed by strict Zeus to guard their forest possessions, in their free time from their main duties, lured into the jungle of lonely male travelers and there, in the forest bushes, indulged in

Ubersexual: in search of a real man

Ubersexual: in search of a real man

Several years ago, like a bolt from the blue, a rather ambiguous appeal to the stronger sex sounded from the pages of men's gloss: fight for your "rights"! You have the right to go shopping and wear designer jeans. You have the right to spend as much time and money on self-care as you want (even if you outdid your friends in this). You have the right to read women's magazines if they are of interest to you, and enjoy fashionable days all day long

What is the right way to compliment?

What is the right way to compliment?

There was a case when a "compliment" literally almost knocked me off my feet. Once, flying in a stream of hurrying people from one metro line to another, I stopped rooted to the spot after the phrase: "Girl, do you want to submit for the sin of seduction by beauty?" Thinking for a long time what this priest, who was collecting the tax, meant, I tried to find the money hidden in the purse in the bag. When, at last, the fog in my head cleared away and the meaning of what the holy father had said became clear, I came across the necessary

On the night the queen gave birth to either a son or a daughter

On the night the queen gave birth to either a son or a daughter

There are ladies who lack a sense of harmony and style: they blindly copy all the newfangled trends, not thinking that there are no ideal and identical women. And when it emphasizes the merits on one dress, on the other the same dress will do the same with the flaws. A little about the talent to dress so as to look fashionable and stylish, even if the figure is far from the standards. Although, I believe, there is no greater punishment than being "standard", that is, devoid of uniqueness, original

How to tell if your marriage is about to fall apart

How to tell if your marriage is about to fall apart

Anyone who has gone through the divorce procedure is strong in hindsight and can perfectly explain why the love boat went downhill. But for some reason none of us knows in advance how the relationship will end. I am one of them. My husband and I seemed to be made for each other: we rarely argued, we had common interests. Of course, not everything was perfect, but against the background of many people around us, our marriage looked exemplary. We ourselves were most surprised when, after 15 years of marriage, we decided to part ways

My mom is a witch

My mom is a witch

Do not be embarrassed, the real one. I am never surprised at anything. I know what you don’t believe in. And when someone invisible sits next to me and watches TV, and a chair creaks and moves under it, a soft seat bends, I am not afraid. On anxious moonlit nights, our black cat scatters blue sparks across the carpet.

Sexism at the 2016 Rio Olympics

Sexism at the 2016 Rio Olympics

Commentators and journalists have to apologize for their statements about the age, figure or marital status of the participants in the Olympic Games. 9 most striking cases of discrimination

A male view of feminism

A male view of feminism

The passenger mass pressed my biceps to the girl's shoulder and we started talking. The chatting was pleasant. But then she suddenly asked: "How do you feel about feminists?" I myself do not know why, instead of answering, I went out through the opened doors. Although I didn't need to go there. Maybe I was scared to meet a feminist (now I think: it's not as scary as if I were courting a girl at a party and found out that she is a transvestite)

Safe stop light for hunger

Safe stop light for hunger

There can be many reasons to part with extra pounds, what is more important is what needs to be done for this. Why do some people manage to maintain optimal weight without any effort, while others spend hours in the gym, limit themselves in everything and still fail to achieve perfection? We are all unique, and there are no “universal” ways. You will probably remember such examples: the fact that one friend helped to become a "slender woman" did not save another even a couple of kilograms

How I was looking for a good spa

How I was looking for a good spa

Office work, a sedentary lifestyle, constant snacks and gradually accumulating fatigue sooner or later affect the figure - a "lifeline" forms around the waist, the skin loses its tone, and cellulite captures new areas, not intending to retreat before diets and sports. The body needs to be helped to get rid of extra pounds, and the Thai masters, whose ability to correct the figure is known all over the world, have succeeded most of all in this. I decided to check for myself, so

I advise NOT to advise

I advise NOT to advise

"You don't need to buy this thing - you have to be more economical. Something your husband comes back late - you keep an eye on him! In my opinion, you've gotten fat, it's time to lose weight. She's completely pale, you need to eat more …" - and stuff like that, then by the list. Without the advice of experts on all life issues, a step cannot be taken. I wonder why each well-wisher does not stay in his place? Why do people so often like to dive into someone else's life rather than watch their own?

Why am I lonely?

Why am I lonely?

Recently I heard a conversation between two women, when one tried to persuade the other to become less demanding, so, they say, you are so unapproachable, that's why you don't even have a man. Something from the series "keep it simple, and people will be drawn to you." In my opinion, this is another widely publicized lie. If you are "simpler", then, of course, people will reach out to you, but what kind? Those who are "simpler". In fact, the thesis that successful people who live with a soul not wide open are unhappy - eh

Better an angry boss than an ugly boss

Better an angry boss than an ugly boss

One of my acquaintances specifically got up at 7 in the morning to call work and check if the morning shift of his subordinates had arrived at the scene, and after this test call, he went to bed and watched his dreams. A friend, once said in her hearts about our common boss:

Good boss

Good boss

One evening, after a busy day at work, when my head had already increased in size, I was sitting at my computer and tormenting my own image in Photoshop. Suddenly, the voice of one of our annoying computer scientists is heard behind my back: "This is your face !!!" To which I, without turning, answer: "Come on, come on! It's none of your business!" And at the exclamation point, I turned my head and … my boss was standing in front of me

A lot of months left, but the end of the salary has come

A lot of months left, but the end of the salary has come

I live in pleasure only for the first few days after my paycheck, and then I just survive: there are a lot of months left, and the end of money has already come. In the new millennium, I still want to stay afloat as much as possible. Therefore, after reading smart books that teach the correct distribution of earned money, and after consulting with a specialist (a mother who is half the salary than mine is able to feed a family of three), I came to conclusions that are not a sin with

Astrologer: "The best time of the year is after a birthday"

Astrologer: "The best time of the year is after a birthday"

How stars help to correct the future, when it is better to make wishes, what to expect from 2018

Dividends of Russian companies in 2020

Dividends of Russian companies in 2020

Dividends of Russian companies in 2020. Current calendar and rules for payment of income

What admires him about you

What admires him about you

We have already found out that men irritate us. And what delights and delights them? Collecting answers to this question was a pleasure! And the results were quite unexpected

My worst first date ever

My worst first date ever

Last week, we found out what can scare a man off on a first date. Women also had to go through many disappointments in similar situations. Victims share their memories today

Conflicts are inevitable (not a psychologist's opinion)

Conflicts are inevitable (not a psychologist's opinion)

I'm afraid even a ten year old child realizes that this is impossible. That is why conflict issues receive such attention in magazines, books and intimate conversations. How often do we hear snatches of conversations of random fellow travelers on the subway or tram: "And he … and I … But how could he? Why does she not understand?" Indeed: why? And what to do with this? As "adult" life shows, conflicts cannot be avoided. And not because people around from morning to night or from night to morning only

An acquaintance is announced

An acquaintance is announced

"Luxurious, blue-eyed, slender and stylish blonde without bad habits and housing problems … will buy a car of roofing iron!" - this old joke, as it should be, is fraught with a considerable amount of truth … and, you must admit, quite a bitter truth. Life melodrama is this: a single woman wants to meet! Let it be such, here, "comic", the most veiled, literally "covered with the darkness of the roofing iron" way, but still wants. Moreover, through an ad

Rich man, poor man, or our debts

Rich man, poor man, or our debts

It is not at all necessary that some of these people are more fortunate in life, and some less. Of course, anecdotes about new Russians in Russia are still very popular, but this is, rather, by inertia. The bulk of the people of the new formation spent a lot of effort to achieve the appropriate position. Studying at the institute, or even two or three, seminars and trainings, life at work - this is what you put on the altar of your career. Since the millionaire uncles with inheritance live only in soap

Girlfriends: why are we losing them?

Girlfriends: why are we losing them?

“We're losing her! Do something! " - this is how doctors scream in despair in serious Hollywood films, when the patient's cardiogram on the screen straightens into an endless line. Also, sometimes you are ready to scream, mentally or aloud, when your best friend leaves you

Pink elephant and autumn rains

Pink elephant and autumn rains

If you are a Japanese bat, it is best to hang upside down somewhere on a sakura branch; if a Russian Prusak, then you need to freeze somewhere in an unlit crack in the kitchen between the sink and the dining table (for Prussian Rusks, the recommendations are identical). Well, since you are a human being, it is most convenient to get into your favorite bed, close your eyes and

Questions to the sexologist. "My masochistic fantasies scare me."

Questions to the sexologist. "My masochistic fantasies scare me."

Not so long ago, summing up my favorite sexual fantasies, I realized that they are masochistic! Such, where I find myself deceived, rudely seduced by a man who does not ask my opinion - do I want sex with him, sex as a ransom, because I was in a hopeless position, and the man only for sex agrees to help me, and the like. You have no idea how depressing it is to me

How not to get raped

How not to get raped

There was a very unpleasant episode in my life associated with an attempted rape. I was twenty years old. I came to Moscow for a session. The train arrived at four in the morning. The metro started at six. Waiting for its opening, I wandered around the Kursk railway station. The times were turbulent then (it is not for nothing that they are now called the "dashing nineties"), and it was possible to run into gangster-looking people anywhere. Especially at the station! And here, one might say, night. Only wine-glasses and taverns work. And from one of

How to stop falling in love with bad guys

How to stop falling in love with bad guys

He is charismatic, charming, his smile melts the girls, the soul of the company, the idol of his friends … He sometimes does not spend the night at home, he is rude, he can hit. He never thinks about anyone but himself, he is capricious and erratic, that he is cheating, everyone knows … He is a typical "bad boy", but this is what attracts a certain type of women, and they endure all humiliation and rudeness just to stay close

Fulfillment of desires

Fulfillment of desires

Each of us dreams of something, waits for something, hopes for something. Having reached a more or less conscious age, we immediately become overgrown with all kinds of desires. At first they are completely unpretentious (well, what can a five-year-old child ask fate: a candy or a toy), but ours over time become more and more weighty, and the impossibility of their implementation becomes more and more obvious. And by the end of our lives, we turn into a storehouse of unfulfilled hopes

How to become a confident girl?

How to become a confident girl?

Sometimes, in order to understand that you do not feel confident and your self-esteem is much lower than adequate, it is not necessary to pass many psychological tests and read articles on this topic. It is enough just to set a very real goal for yourself, for example, to make more money in the new year than in the past, and to listen to your inner voice. If, instead of trying to figure out how this could be done, he hesitantly mumbles: "Hardly … I can not … Circumstances

Astrology laws versus blindly playing with life

Astrology laws versus blindly playing with life

What is Compatibility? This is the ease with which people find a common language. If the couple is compatible, then people can easily reach each other without much effort. They give the impression of a harmonious couple, they do not have to strain to build bridges to each other, they do not need to play atypical roles for themselves. If an astrologer says that a couple is poorly compatible, this means that people do not fit well into each other's image. For example, in his view, an ideal woman is a quiet housewife, and n

How to be successful in career and motherhood at the same time

How to be successful in career and motherhood at the same time

In our country, it is often believed that one cannot be successful both in career and in motherhood, but many women prove that this is not the case. The editor of "Netology" tells how to combine both, and follow your own path

All the girls do it

All the girls do it

The word "masturbation" automatically turns many of us crimson. And, by the way, in vain. It is not for nothing that they say among the people, "rely on others, but do not make a mistake yourself." You have to do everything yourself: understand the computer, drive a car, and … love yourself too. So isn't it time to dot the i's on masturbation?